The answer may sound obvious but for some reason it's not that simple. Right after my grandmother died a few years ago, my fiance and I were at a party and my half sister (who was in town for the funeral) and my fiance's cousin (who had just gotten back from the war) were both there and we were all drinking (we are all in our 20's.) Later into the night, they both passed out on the couch and after a little while we heard a commotion and she said that she woke up and he was touching her inappropriately. She was obviously very upset and he denied doing it. My now fiance, myself and my sister all left shortly thereafter and since then I have not been in much contact with either my half-sister or half-brother.
Now my fiance and I are planning our wedding and are stuck in a bad situation with who to invite. It may sound obvious, this jack hole did a detestable thing, so the choice seems obvious. However, if we don't invite him, all of the people in my fiance's family who are directly related to him (his other cousins, his aunt, etc.) will undoubtedly wonder why...
I just want some input on how we should handle this situation....
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