Bad sexual experience.?

Question

A couple weeks ago I had the worst sexual event of my life. I lucked out and it was a one night stand thing and nobody knows the girl. Plus no one would believe her since she is not attractive at all. I honestly don't know why I did it or how I should feel about it. I wont get into details about it but it was horrible. Should I feel bad? Cause it was my fault. But I just wasn't attracted to her and could not "stay up" to the job so to speak. But it didn't happen anymore. Maybe it was just one of those times? Hopefully first and final?

Answer 1

She's not attractive at all?

Then why did you try to score with her???

Answer 2

High Five Dude=]

Answer 3

Oh that happens to all guys, it's just fatigue and stuff.  It happened to a guy I know in high school and it never bothered him again.  Don't even stress.

Answer 4

Brush it off. Everybody makes mistakes, and it's just going to hurt you in the long run if you keep on stressing it.

Answer 5

Keep ya head up....lmao no pun intended

Answer 6

10 Minutes Late,

your experience sounded really funnn

=D

Answer 7

Forget about it, if you make a big deal of it then its gonna be a big deal. relax, it was only a 1 night stand so its not as if your gonna see her again unless you know her.

(",)

Answer 8

Nice gangsta! you get out der and get dem hoes fo sho! dats what i sayin you did the right thing. Cheah holla at cha boy!

Answer 9

Hey Joseph j !!!

All I can say is "live & learn", & I wouldn't worry about it.

Move on cause we all go through it at 1 point or another, whether we like it or not.  

Chow

Answer 10

You were probably feeling frustrated and desperate, and went with a dog to satisfy yourself, but the dog just didn't do it for you.

Answer 11

If she was as unattractive as you say then it is your body's natural response.

Answer 12

It was a stupid mistake in my opinion. We all make those. hopefully this will be a learning experience for you not to jump into bed with any and everybody.

Answer 13

Consider yourself lucky!

When I was a kid I drove 6 hours to meet some girl I met on the internet (this was before digital cameras). She swore she was s**y.

Turned out she looked like a football linebacker and had the muscles to match. Her eyes went opposite ways and had thick hair that covered her butt. For some odd reason, mine didn't wanna work either.

Looking back, it was a GREAT thing.

Answer 14

lol..........dont worry.....we all have one bad time!

or as for me...........we all have one good time!

wonder when that will come!

Answer 15

This is why you're supposed to have s*x with someone 'special', not the first girl you come across during the day. Sheesh. And, yes, you should feel bad. Poor ugly girl probably thought you actually liked her.

Answer 16

you went home with a fat girl, huh?

Answer 17

pop in a p**n and see if you get hard, if so then it still works and maybe it didnt work that day cause you dont find her attractive

Answer 18

Hang on a sec... u contradicted yourself.

"no one would believe her since she is not attractive at all".... would believe what? u mean if she told of her deflated date? That does not make sense... if she is not attractive at all, people would understand.

The u go on to say... "But I just wasn't attracted to her and could not "stay up" to the job so to speak".  You answered your own question as to why it didn't happen! Some males do actually care about who they choose to penetrate. You weren't following your true self. That is all.

Answer 19

No.1 thing, don't go leading poor girls on like that.. If she isn't attractive or you weren't attracted to her then it probably didn't stay up for that reason alone!!  Mate, I think you need to get out more if the only thing you will settle for is someone so hideous that it won't stay up!!

Answer 20

its over man you shouldnt feel bad, it was a one time thing and you can have plenty more....just think of it as a bad fruit in a batch ;)

Answer 21

we all have bad sexual experiences hun, no use feeling bad about it..whats done is done. Your not going back, so your not using the girl, but you cant say shes unattractive, maybe to you yes, but Im sure there are ppl that find her hot :P Its one thing to have bad s*x..but its another to trash the person you had it with.