My husband and I were both baptized as children but neither of our families are very religious. We each attended church occassionally as children and then not at all as teenagers and adults.
We have now decided that we'd like to start attending church as a family and baptize our 6 month old daughter. We've agreed on Godparents, a church and pastor, and the date, but we have a couple of questions.
1) Do you get the Godparents a small gift of some kind?
2) Do you invite only immediate family or do you extend the invitation to all friends and family who'd like to come?
3) Do you host a gathering after the event (BBQ or picnic of some kind) or do people go home afterwards?
4) If she receives gifts (my Goddaughter received many relgious items) do you open them in front of people or privately?
I am not sure where to go with this. What is proper etiquette? My Goddaughter's parents made her baptism a really fun event- lots of family and friends, great food, card games the night before, a cook-out the day of, etc. However, my husband's family tends to do theirs very privately and quietly. What is more common?
Thank you for all of your answers!
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