Beach trip with this guy?

Question

im not yet dating this guy (im 14 he's 16) - but he has been over at the house and met my family a few times and he has the intention of asking me out shortly. he invited me to spend the day at the beach with him, his sister (18) and her boyfriend (20). and i figured my parents would say no, so i threw in the idea that my brother (18) could come with me and bring a friend so my parents would be more comfortable. they said that could work but as soon as my brother agreed they changed their minds and said i was too young. my parents love the guy i like -- he's a really good kid, what's not to like but they think its a bad idea even if my brother goes. should i keep trying? or should i just give up? its not like anything bad would happen in a public place like a beach -- and we are only going for the day.. not like OVER NIGHT.

Answer 1

lol......lay back and enjoy the ride.

Answer 2

The way my parents are and im assuming the way your parents might be is they dont want you to get hurt. Im the same age and so is my brother and they know that boys can trick you into anything. I would say stop trying and maybe they will think about it and let you go. Good luck!

Answer 3

Perhaps if your parents took you to the beach to meet him, and quietly stayed as far as possible away?  Maybe then they could relax and learn to trust.  As a parent, it's hard to realize our little ones are almost adults, and sometimes, we hope they don't do the things we wanted to as kids.

Answer 4

Maybe if you could get your parents to going on a fun day at the beach,than you run into this guy. It may work try it.

Answer 5

I would keep trying if I were you

Answer 6

If you really like the guy keep trying and tell your parents that!