Beautiful and stunning sis-in-law...iam jealous! help!?

Question

my brother's wife is extremely modern and sophisticated.i dress well and is known for my fashion sense amongst my friend's and relatives circle but this sis-in-law of mine is just plain unbelievable.she stuns in designer wear and has impeccable fashion sense.also,unlike me she loves to flaunt her fantastic body in the clothes she wears.anyways..i tried to be like her but it does not suit my attitude.putting it in a nut shell..i am not happy.how do i learn to be happy with myself and not compare myself with her?

Answer 1

Be yourself. You don't have to compete with anyone. If you truly like and respect her then you would learn to like for how she is.  Jealous is ugly on people and makes the person look very bad. Grow up people know when a person is green with envy and jealous.

Answer 2

She's probably not as great as you make her out to be.  You shouldn't be in competition with your sister-in-law (even if that's hard).  Become her friend and all that good sh*t.  Trying to be someone else's double is not really a life at all.  To be yourself you should look at all the qualities you have and she doesn't.  Being a fashion princess in designer clothes isn't everything (especially if she's as dumb as a rock).

Answer 3

Behind closed doors, she probably has self esteem/body issues.  Everybody is not who they seem to be.

Answer 4

you just have to appreciate what you have because you have it for a reason and dont be jealous over others peoples characteristics. you probably have something better than her in another area ex.maybe your smarter or funnier.