Becoming a Foster Parent?

Question

Okay. Well im think about becoming a foster parent soon. ( Australia )

I would like to know the guild lines of taking care of the child.

Like are you allowed to Buy them things like for example if the are 13 or whatever get them a mobile phone etc.

Just treat them like normal kids.

And the types of disiplen i don't want to be harsh and NOO way would i use fisical contact.

How old do you have to be in Australia

Would you have to pay for there school fees. ( i would )

Answer 1

becoming a foster parent is a very big deal ,most of the kids in foster care are damaged ,abused and need a lot of care ...if you are serious get in touch with Bernardo's they may have a course you can do .I believe you would be responsible for ever aspect of the child's life but there is some financial assistance ...I don't think there is an age requirement but you do need a stable home and be experianced in dealing with kids ...

Answer 2

Firstly, you have to be accepting and patient. You must not try to treat them as if they are outsiders, and you must smile! If they are the shy kinds, try to get them to open up to you. If they are abused kids, NEVER try to bring up the past. They will feel very upset. Instead, try to ask what they want to do. If they were not abused in the past, ask them what they like to do and things like that. Next, deal with them in a fair manner. See the situation and the age of the child. Be very understanding. She/he needs as much care and love as everyone else. Do not let them feel alone.

Thanks for asking this question. I hope you'll have a good time with your foster child!

Answer 3

You need a spare room for the child (essential requirement). You need a stable, comfortable home ie; no random/different boyfriends coming and going every week.

You would need to be an adult obviously so at least 18 but more importantly you would need to have some maturity behind you and be able to provide a loving, stable, secure environment.