Been Cheated on and She's Pregnant, What do I do?

Question

My fiance has cheated on me numerous times I've come to find out. She's pregnant and at first said she was totally certain it was mine, Now she's telling others it could be theirs. I don't know what to do, This girl has destroyed me on every level, but I can't get her hooks out of me. Any advice on if I should stay or get out now while I still can? Thanks guys.

Answer 1

Leave. And when the baby comes get a paternity test. If it is yours support it and be in its life, but I would stay as far away from this woman as possible. If she cheated on you numerous times before the baby, likely she will continue doing it after it is born...

Answer 2

Take The Test...

Maury will be happy to read the results

Answer 3

Get out of that life before it gets too late, you'll both find out soon enough on whether the baby is yours or not.

And just get away from that place, as far as you can.....

You'll be destroyed, mentally and the psychological effects will probably last for years, If you don't get out now.

Clearly she's a ***** and you deserve much better

Jordan  

Answer 4

well at least you are not married to the tramp!

it doesn't matter really if the kids your or not shes a cheater and will always be.this baby is not going to change that no matter who the father is.YOU can get her hooks out just walk away now.she sounds like my husbands ex wife who she tricked into signing the birth certificate on the first boy tj and then he was dumb enough to marry her a month before katie was born

neither one of these kids are his.she knew it but he is still paying child support because he is the LEGAL father.do not be made a fool of by her anymore .she will ruin your life for years to come if you let her.

girls like her are a dime a dozen,get out and forget her cause i guarantee she does not love you or anyone else either.i feel sorry for any child she has but don't let it be your problem.get the dna test done after the child is born and stay away from her she is just playing you for a fool cause she knows she can!good luck!

Answer 5

I would get out while you can, your not married yet and shes cheated on you numerous times.  If you truly love her, set her free.  She is not doing anything good for your relationship, shes only making things worse.  Get a DNA test!! Best of luck!!

Answer 6

First you need to get out of that relationship.  Then you need to get a DNA test to see if the baby is yours or not.  If the child is not yours send this scanky *********. to the UK.  If the child is yours go for full custody.

Answer 7

When come to this problems you should think clearly of what to do and not do because other say so

When a man or woman have trouble to keep up with their commitment than this is well be happen, and happen again, and again. It is almost like a disease.

Best, best i would make sure whom is that child belong too, and that can find out by doctor.

Forgive s never mean it is forgotten. So how can you forget what she did and the present of the child. It is not the child fault. it just happen because you she have hurt you, broke your heart, and can not be trusted. Do you willingly DNA test every child later in life to make sure they are your.

Good luck with your decision

Answer 8

I would never take her back if i were you. Dude she has cheated on you numerous times she is pregnant and doesn't even know if you are the father! She has ruined your life enough. You should get out of that relationship as fast as you can. Whether the child could be yours or not, end the relationship now, who knows what she will do next.

Answer 9

RUN...VERY FAST!  I know it's going to hurt because it sounds like you love her but let that ish go!  When she has the child get a DNA test.  If the child is yours be a father to that child, deal with her only for the child sake.  If the child is not yours STAY AWAY from her by all means.  She sounds rotten!

Answer 10

Her track record of faithfulness scores a ZERO.  I would get out for sure.  Being a woman myself, if I was that permiscous before marrige I doubt that I would stop at least anytime soon.  Does she have a s*x problem?  And how old are you guys?

Answer 11

I believe you already know in your conscience what is the correct thing to do. She already inferred/admitted that she has been fu**ing other guys. You say that she has already destroyed you on every level. I know it hurts to have to go through something like this as you have serious emotions for her but if you believe that you are hurting now, just wait until later on when she really gets her hooks into you and see how bad it hurts then!

It is better to get that DNA test ASAP and if its your child then its your duty to help support the child and its your duty to be a good father to the child but its not your duty to have this woman become your wife or stay as your girlfriend. However, even if its your child.....you must not marry her and you must break up with her completely.....NOW and not later but either way she is not marrying material as she is a w***e and you will never....never be able to trust her.

And after the test and if it turns out that the child is not yours at all, you must break up with her ASAP.

In fact, you must break up with her today either way and save yourself. I have counseled couples for 15 years and I know what I am talking about. You must break up with her today and begin the healing process!

Answer 12

Run like h**l baby,  if its yours you will find out if not then you are in the clear , but get out while the getting is good.

Answer 13

go on maury and do the free dna test and let her humiliate herself on tv with all these guys she is banging

Answer 14

The girl has not destroyed you at all. You think she has. Your fiance is the one that stuck it in another girl without protection. He didn't give a sh*t about protecting himself, her, or you.

Do not get married to this guy or you will have a lifetime of h**l. Don't whin about "but I love him" either because you should never give you love to someone that would do that to you. Respect yourself and leave now. Who cares if it is someone elsese baby or your ex fiances baby. Just splitting hairs now.  

Answer 15

Tell her you can't commit to her unless you have a DNA and know the baby is yours. A baby is not a reason to stay together if you are not happy but the baby will do better if his/hers parents are together. You can't stay with someone who habitually cheats and even is irresponsible enough to get pregnant. Get out and get some facts before making any decision.