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Been seeing this guy for about a month now, he tells me he likes me a lot but doesnt call as much anymore?

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This guy and I are 23 years old. We've had our share of painful relationships in the past, but this time, we feel like it's so different. It's incredible. We've been only talking to each other for 3 weeks and we already have a strong connection. I know 3 weeks is short, but the connection we have cannot be explained. It feels like we've known each other for ever. We talk to each other every single day for hours and hours especially b/c it's long distance. We know long distance relationships doesnt work out and there will be a lot of issues involved, but we are aware of this yet we are so willing to try. he told me he's crazy about me, and asks me if i think it's weird since it's been only a short period of time. He tells me he's falling for me and feels like fate brought us together b/c God always has a reason. He says he feels like we're meant to be etc..and hopes I feel the same way and if I don't I should tell him. He says he's going to try to overcome this long distance and will show it through actions. We;re also both students so he said he's going to try his best so he can go to graduate school near me. He said he's never been happier. He tells me not to go away and he promises me he wont ever hurt me.

***** BUT for a couple of days now he seems so distant. We talk during the day on gmail chat during work or school and at end when he goes out with his friends, he doesn't call. i end up calling him so many times and he says he will call me when he gets home but never does. this happened for a couple of days now. and today he usually calls or texts me but hasnt at all..

i feel like hes playing games, telling me he likes me so much and now hes being different, calling less or not at all...is it because i call him so much? that is why i plan on not going on gmail and not calling him to see where he's at...did he lose interest in me? why lead me on then? im scared and i dont want to call him again when he hasnt...

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  1. im sorry... the first few weeks of a relationship are usuall non stop talking.  then it dies down...so it is very normal.   if it continues, then i woulnd respond to a few of his emails, or texts, and then see how he reacts to it.     if he gets mad, hes a no go.  if he gets a little upset,  tell him you have been busy, then ask him why he wasnt responding.  if he is fine with it, i can see you guys going out for a while...

    best of luck


  2. He may of met someone else, he may be busy.  2-3 hours a day is a lot of time to take out of your schedule.  Especially if he goes to school or works!  Ask him if anything has changed, you don't have anything to lose.  Good Luck  xox

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