Before I make the final decision to join the monastery, is there any last minute advice for me?

Question

I basically have given up on love and women and relationships. Been 5 years since last one and haven't had s*x either. I have become a hermit in my house and am depressed all the time. I have no friends. I have social issues and do not go out in public either. Any last minute advice before I join the monks?

Answer 1

you wont fit there either . how about you try the zoo ? mr the zoo right .

Answer 2

I suggest the Carthusians. If you're going to be miserable, might as well have reason. And none of that pesky charity or missionary work that forces you to interact with people.  

Answer 3

Joining a monastery is not the answer but slowly getting out and socializing is.  You need to go to a therapist and maybe get on anti depressants and start to live again.

Answer 4

Go with God my son....

Answer 5

You will have to undergo psychological testing before you are accepted into any order - and in your present condition, it's doubtful you would 'pass' as mentally healthy.

Perhaps it's time to get into some counselling now, for your own personal well-being.

Wish you luck!

Answer 6

before you join the monks,join the peace corps.

you could end up working with someone that you really like,

and she likes you and...there is hope!

Answer 7

Get off the computer and take a walk outside.  join a group. im sure you have friends.

5 years with no s*x is hard but tolerable.. it hink ur gonna be going alot longer than 5 years once you join the monks.

try going on a dating website.. speed dating... a book club. i really dont think u need to give up to be honest. but if its what u want to do then go for it.  

Answer 8

You’re certified