Before helping anyone, do you think about what benefit you would get out of the whole thing?

Question

Wicked Little Girl, i don't =)

Answer 1

I only think this makes me feel happy and i do love to help nothing to expect.

Answer 2

pikir pahala jer.. huhu, mesti menyirapkan??? PANAAAS JER!!!

PEACE =D

Answer 3

no

Answer 4

family members....i dont think twice....others...wait and see....

Answer 5

Nope, I just ask myself if I can help this person correctly and without hindering myself. If you help someone out with a problem that drains you emotionnaly, you MAYBE have helped someone, but caused yourself harm

Answer 6

No. It's usually a spontaneous action.

But if you're talking about helping in something bad like lying to parents, in exams, in college projects thn. I would think twice.

Answer 7

Yes, lemme remind you this:

Hutang budi tergadai body.

Answer 8

I don't want to have a friend like that which are thinking about the benefit........  

Answer 9

NO, do it for the sake of helping others and never expecting a return. You would naturally earn good deeds and good karma.

May you be well and Happy always.  

Answer 10

The one who gives sleep better... ;-)

Answer 11

yes... to ppl dat i dont care....

no to ppl i care and love...

Answer 12

Honestly, sometimes YES but most of the times NO...

YES when the job requires your additional time and efforts

NO when the jobs are just part of your duty, or the opposite of my YES above...

Answer 13

sometimes. well, who doesn't?

Answer 14

Depends on the situation, if it was something simple like giving someone a lift to town or helping someone move house then I wouldn't think twice.

However, if it's something like lending money or letting someone stay in my house then I would have to think twice.  

Answer 15

I always think whether i'm in a position to help or not in the first place?

Answer 16

not to my close friend and family or the person who really need it....but yes for some people

Answer 17

Sometimes, but that's only if I'm not too keen helping for reasons I only know; like ask me to go out of my way to pick up something that's not urgent at all when I know very well that she can do it herself since she needs to go there the next day anyway. I'd would usually decline.

But if I truly want to help (from the bottom of my heart), then I'd not expect repayment of any kind.

Answer 18

Nope... most of the time. But if I don't feel like helping, I might just wonder if there's any benefit if i DO help the person

Answer 19

Nope.. help is a pleasure if the some one is a nice person.

Answer 20

i consider more the consequences of helping the person. sometimes helping someone can really get you in a pile of shite after that.  

Answer 21

i don't think of benefit