Behind it all I hate everyone even before meeting them and i like hurting them

Question

ok i dont mean to sound like im full of myself or rude or anything i just realized i have a little problem, im just a mad person in general i didnt notice it before but behind it all i enjoy hurting people, like per example if im in a crowd of people wether it be a child or adult i will bump into them very hard with my elbow on purpose just to p**s them off because something deep down inside makes me feel like i need to, like i feel good especially if i hurt them i feel like i hate them is this a form of sadism? whats wrong with me,,

Answer 1

You could be taking your inner turmoil out on people because you don't have any other release for your anger or pain. As long as you aren't injuring people in a big way, like causing broken bones or some ****, and giving them at worst a bruise, I don't see too much wrong with it. However, you should look for an alternate release of some sort maybe, like flaming losers on forums, as hurting giant e-peens is generally a lot more satisfying and a lot less harmful to the individual.

:P I think I'm kidding, but you should probably look into alternative means, or at least get to the root of why you want to 'hurt' people. Ask your therapists about it, as they may be able to provide more insight and help you determine ways to deal with your anger.

Answer 2

Dunno...perhaps when some1 get's YOU as much as you ENJOY hurting others, THEN you MIGHT see how much being a jag off brings pain to other mofos

Answer 3

That sounds really weird you need to do something like talk to a therapist before this worsens cause if you enjoy hurting kids well then that a really weird and serious problem!! Get Help before it's too late!!!

Answer 4

see a phsycologist.

did u have difficult childhood?

Answer 5

You are unhappy with yourself and crave attention even if it's negative. You want others to feel the pain you feel.

Forgive yourself and start anew. It is always possible to start fresh...remember that!

Answer 6

You definitely need to seek counseling before you bump into the wrong person.

Answer 7

I don't want to sound rude but maybe you should take out your anger on something else?

I'm not suggesting you hurt yourself or anything but if you think of something you really like maybe you won't feel the need to hurt people.

For example, if you're in a crowd and you feel like hurting people think of where your going and concentrate on that..

Or maybe even just imagine them in pain.That's not really a good idea but if it helps then maybe you should try.

I also haven't found any of the other answers useful and that's why I'm making an answer of my own.

I hope your psychiatrist is helping...I mean that in a good way.

There's nothing wrong with you.

Moderation is the key.Try to stop yourself from hurting people and then try the things that I mentioned earlier...

Good Luck!

Answer 8

well if u kno u are a mean person and u cant stop from being a mean person then u need help.

remember that people have feelings too. and what goes around, comes around

Answer 9

Well, it sure sounds like you have some issues.  

Haven't you discussed this with your therapist?  You should.  It might sound like a minor annoyance right now but if you have children you definitely do not want to have these kinds of feelings.

It sounds like you were hurt by someone when you were very young.  It might help you if you could learn what happened and then try to put it into perspective.  You can't really do it without professional help.  It's like someone has to pull these things out of your brain.  

More importantly, let someone help you!  Allow them to get close to you and learn to trust them.  You can't do it alone and I know that you are worth straightening out.

Answer 10

Ok, well maybe you have a lot of emotions that you haven't let out. Which is ok, i guess, but hurting other people is not ok. I'm not sure if you want to hear this or not, but you asked for help and I want to help you. I'm a christian and I believe that God can do anything. If you really want to change you situation then pray and give your problem to God. I know I sound like some religious freak who hasn't gone through anything in there life. But that's not who I am. I just know that God can help you more than anyone on Y!A and maybe you should give him a try instead of your psychiatrist. =)

Answer 11

you dont have people skills maybe someone needs to do it back to you so you understand what they feel...you should see a shrink about this they may be able to help you

good luck

Answer 12

Do talk honestly with your Doctor.  

Answer 13

Keep going to your doctors. If that doesn't work find better ones.

Answer 14

Your problem is not of that 'Depressed' stuff or anything. Your just a rude person. You should become a hermit so you can fully enjoy your life, with just you because your a self-absorbed, conceited person.