Being Abstinent?

Question

So in 8th grade we took a s*x ed class. I was the only one out of my friends to sign the abstinence thing. I signed it because I wanted to see if I could do it and I'm scared of STDs. Any thoughts on this?

Answer 1

u did a good thing

Answer 2

I'm proud of you.

Girl, be a child for as long as you can! You have so many years of adulthood right ahead of you!

Answer 3

I signed an abstinence thing too when I was in my teens. I am 22 now and married. I waited until I got married to have s*x and am happy to say that it was a great decision!

Answer 4

Thats great! You should be scared of getting a STD because you can't get rid of that. And once your friends get older and have children at the age of 15 or something they are going to look back and think I should have listen to _________(your name).

And if they peer presure you just try to find a new group of friends because there are alot of people that I'm sure signed that, that you could be friends with.

Answer 5

you're doing the right thing. honestly, you're probably going to be the one who makes it farther in life. most pregnant teens don't finish high school. even though some do, it is hard for them.

Answer 6

Good job.

Answer 7

i think that that is a great thing you did. it is very responsible of you. STDs are a scary thing and getting pregnant is even scarier

Answer 8

that's good...

u made the decision u felt was right for u there nothin wrong wit that...

Answer 9

I signed one 2.  U R not alone.

Its still sounds like a good idea.

we used 2 have this pastor at church and his wfie was soooo kute most of us thot she was his daughter but anywazzzz

They were married when they were like 23 and like now they are like 33 and still no kids so they went to the doctor and guess what they found out ????

When she was 15 she had a one night stand with this guy on her high school's foot ball team and the next day he dumps her

That was her only sexual experiment before she became a Christian.

And now at 33 they figure out this is why she can't have kids.

Clamidia dont ask me how to spell it

Its an STD which makes about 1 in 4 girls who get it sterile which means she can never have kids and there is nothing they can do about it except adopt.

Answer 10

what they dont tell you is that you can still get an std even when your married....

Answer 11

You are a very mature and responsible person... trust me, I'm thinking that there are a lot of adults out there who want to relive their teen years and take that pledge... hey who knows, maybe the people who didn't take it will end up regretting not doing it... you're mature than a lot of adults I've seen these days... btw, I'm a 13 year old who took the same pledge, and what people have thought of me is what a wrote down, so

YOU'RE NOT ALONE! :-)

Answer 12

good choice your friends should have followed you

Answer 13

That is so awesome! My husband and I were both virgins when we got married in August of 2004, I was 19 and he was 21 it made our honeymoon and wedding night the most amazing thing I have ever experienced. I couldn't imagine doing it any different. It was so special having it be my first time, and on my wedding night. No heart breaks going through it with other people, no comparisons because I had no experience. It was PERFECT!!! STICK with it and good luck! BE STRONG IT gets soo hard as you get older!!

<<HUGS>>  Toni Lynne

Answer 14

u did a good thing... stick to your morals and later on in live youll find the right one to share that special thing with

Answer 15

I think what your doing is really good because I'm also a person who chose to be abstinent instead of s*x. I'm still a virgin and I'm gonna be 20 on Saturday, August 2.

You are doing the right thing lots of guys still try to see if I'll give myself to them and I always tell them no, guys at a young age are usually out to get into your pants and so virginity is a special thing to keep for yourself. I think its really great that you chose to do that!!!

Answer 16

way to go don't have s*x it is better to wait

Answer 17

It's awesome that you stick with your values, and I think you're on the right track.  Good job!

Answer 18

Heya

my thoughts are .. if thats what you want to do , do it and dont let anyone have a effect on this apart from you. =] x*x