My friend is in jail...need advice
met up with a friend and we went out to a bar (like an 1.5 hrs from my house). Well close to two and they called last call...so I told my friend we had to go. She was sitting on some guys lap across the room and had been acting S****y bouncing around all night. She said wait and then when they turned on the lights, I said "we have to go". She got pissed and wanted to stay with this guy. I said "you don't even know him, and he's gross." His female friend over heard it and got in my face...my friend started yelling with her, at me. So I told her it was her last chance to go home with me. She kept yelling about how I was bringing her down and she wanted to stay... so I gave her her keys and wallet...(which I held while she gave lapdances)...and left. So now I was lost and had my sister come get me...well it turns out the guy she was all over wouldn't take her home...she wanted us(sister and I) to drive back an hour and get her. I didn't and she got arrested after her husband called the police on her in the morning. She ended up being on probabtion and is now sitting in jail w/ 1000 bond. I feel horrible but at the time I felt she was being direspectful and left her. Now her parents want me to help post her bail. I feel bad, but I don't really think it's entirely my fault. Any suggestions
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24 minutes ago
i live far away from her and we only meet up once every few months. Her husband got an injunction on her which she violated and they put her on probation (they live together). When she got home (IDK when) he called the probabtion officer and she got arrested. I don't know all the details...her mother left me the message on my phone
18 minutes ago
oh yeah....with all the money people were putting in her pants when she was on the bar could have gotten her a taxi. I don't have the money for that. Like I said...I do feel bad for leaving her....the situation escalated when they were in my face about to fight. At that point I wasn't feeling as empathic.
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