Being excluded from friends?

Question

I have a friend (Lets just call her Jayla) i met 2 years ago and shes become my best friend now, but she had friends of her own before me and they ALL hate me (jealousy maybe?). During the first year there we never talked and it became awkward and at the end of the school year they all (three of them) got together and planned to avoid me. Jayla still really liked them so there was nothing i could do. Now its a year later and Im being excluded from most of my previous friends because of the lies those three have been saying. Jayla tried talking to them but it was impossible. I dont know what to do now, any help??

Answer 1

HI BerrySwe,

   You say you have a friend Jayla that you met 2 years ago. She has friends that don't like you. I appears the Jayla doesn't  like you either. How could she hurt you feelings just because she has other friends. Where are the friends that you had before you met Jayla. If you didn't drop them because you met Jayla then start spending some time with them. If you didn't have friends just be yourself you will meet people that will except you for who you are. Don't spend money or go out of your way doing things cause when all the spending and doing is over  so is the friendship. Don't worry so much about being around others get your lesson and get excellent grades so that you can get on with your llife noone is going to take care of you. I know that you are young but I want you to always remember this: True friends are precious but rare, False friends are like autumn leaves found every where