Being hit on gives me a noticeable self esteem boost immediately.....?

Question

It also makes my husband a bit randy so it doesn't do anything negative for us, but it goes against so much of what I think in relation to my feminism, so along with feeling good about myself after getting hit on randomly I also have lingering guilt that I am letting myself down.

Should I just get over it and take advantage of the boost I get and the randiness the husband gets?

Answer 1

Being hit on is the same as getting a compliment, so of course it's going to give your self esteem a boost.  

I don't think you have to worrry about that damaging your feministic values, just as long as you don't constantly need or thrive on it.

Enjoy those random compliments!

Answer 2

Ohhh Paleeeez!

Your married and love to be reminded that your a woman. You enjoy the attention your body gets you and your husband likes having a trophy on his arm. Your not a feminist your human.

Being a feminists removes you from your humanity.

Answer 3

Getting a "good job" from the boss makes you feel good to right?   part of being a human everyone likes compliments.

Answer 4

being hit on does give u self esteem boost but just think bout it the guy usualy saying that he likes ur body not ur personality or heart.. and if ur husband gets randy then u shudnt feel good about it and take advantage of tht.

sl*ts get self esteem boosts from having s*x with alot of guys thats y they do it but they dont realise guys just want to get inside them.

Answer 5

Men should stop treating feminists like ladies, and instead treat them like the men they say they want to be.

Answer 6

Yeah, just get over it.  There is nothing wrong with a good self-esteem boost as long as nobody is being harmed by it!

Answer 7

Your feminism should only be part of your personal philosophy.  Don't get so hung up on it that you cannot even enjoy being told you are beautiful.

Answer 8

its wrong to let it happen liek that if your married. u can enjoy it a little but i think you should be loyal to just your husband and ask them to stop flirting with u... just tell them ur taken

Answer 9

It boosts the ego, and if hubby doesn't mind, then shorten the skirt, tighten the bodice and trawl for compliments.

Answer 10

Your an incomplete feminist, shame on you. Personally, I love it when another man hits on my women.