Being left behind. Or going away.?

Question

Which one is more painful?[:

Answer 1

BEING LEFT BEHIND...HARD ONE TO FIGURE OUT.

Answer 2

being left behind...

i was left behind the last 2 weeks by my man and his kids.. they went to italy on vaca and i couldnt go.. we decided, in the end, it owuld be best for him to go with his kids, just this time, cause its the first vaca they have gotten to have since he got divorced so we thought it would be good for the kids to have their daddy time without the gf around... and it has been so hard... he says he's miserable too and he will never go away w/o me again, but he has so much to do and see and his whole family to be with.. i am here.,  working, going to bed alone and taking care of his house.. i definately think being left behind is harder, cause the person who is going away has something to do while they're gone....

Answer 3

Being left behind................In my opinion, feeling rejected is the worst feeling one can have.......

Answer 4

i think being left behind is more painful...if u're going away you naturally meet other people..and it's usually on a good note....

the one who is being left behind is the one that's in more pain, b/c they are left in the familiar setting and the things around them make them always think of the one that has gone away, and reminise of all the good times....

Answer 5

being left is far more painful than leaving.being left involves the ego, and ones self worth.

Answer 6

going away

Answer 7

going away b/c you are the one who has to deal with the "what if i stayed... what if they change... i wonder if they would have changed..." you think about all that a lot of the time wonder how it would have been if you haven't left. i'm stuck in a rut right now whether to leave or not. if i leave i know he'll be hurt for some time but he'll always run off and find someone new but people who leave leave for certain reasons but there is still attachment there and there will always be that "what if..." in the back of the mind. i'm stuck wondering if i leave how will it be but really what if i stay maybe he will change... or things will get better... i have no idea and no one has the answer to that one