Best Friend Issue. PLEASE HELP ME! ?

Question

She seems to think that if a guy puts a kiss(x) at the end or a text or msn or something,she seems to think that he fancies her and she goes all "omg omg he likes me" and im just thinging "Nooo?"

please dont suggest that i talk to her coz i hate answers like that, but what can i do or why is she doing this?

Answer 1

well.....maybe you should start putting xo's at ends of texts, and tell her other friends to do it too, so that she can see that its not somthing she thinks. good luck.... ;)

Answer 2

So what do you care? She will find out soon enough on her own that they aren't all in love with her. Sometimes you have to let people find things out on their own instead of being told. When she does find out, just be there to comfort her and listen.

Answer 3

tell her to grow up

or tell her to ask them out if she like them 2

then she will find out if they like her

Answer 4

shes probably really insecure about herself, and wants that kind of attention from boys, so she juss pretends like she is getting the attention....you dont want anyone to tell you that u shud talk to her, but there isnt anyway to fix the problem without talking to her...

or you could juss ignore, whenver she does it....or you could tell ur guy frends to text you in the same way and show her, and hopefully she will eventually see that its nothing personal..

i think that would be the best idea....tell some of your guys frends to text you with an x at the end, and show her.....then juss let her know that its not cuz they like you its cuz they are ur frends...

hope you figure it out!

Answer 5

best bet is to start texting the same guys as her and then when shes all oh he likes me he likes me go err hun he put kisses on my msg too.. and shell see that guys arent like that

Answer 6

well your right if guys put a (x) in the end of a message it does not meant that they fancy you and she needs to realise this and stop being so immature and soundinng like a 5 year old.

well you could show her some of you messages from guys with (x) on them just to show that guys do it to everyone or just tell her right well dont you think you should ask one of them out ans see ow she reacts