ok well i am 16 & have a best friend who i have been friends with for a year. the thing is, she has totally changed. before we were friends, she was really quiet and nice & also a bit chubby. this was when she was like 13. anyway, she lost weight quite alot really & was anorexic too (not that she would ever admit) & started hanging out with my group of friends because she wasn't getting along with her other friends anymore. at this point last year, nobody even knew her name & to put it nicely, if it wasn't for me, they still wouldn't. i introduced her to people & also she got a new haircut & looks way different & is more bubbly lately. the problem is, she now seems to think she is "cooler" than me or better in some way & if i do something jokingly she gets embarassed & tells me not to. she does it all the time & it is like what the h**l, nobody else finds it embarassing or annoying. she is very competitive & we coach 11 year olds netball together & i told her today in a jokey way about them thinking she was mean because she always made them run & she pretty much attacked me saying that the only reason they like me more is because i don't follow through with punishments! like what?! also i asked what we should do for the end of netball season & she was like "well i don't care because they hate me anyway"
she has totally changed and thinks she is really popular now even though she doesn't actually have many close friends now & i talk to more people than she does. i don't care that people know me more or that i talk more or whatever, it is more that she treats me like she is better than me & its really irritating!
also i always compliment her on things and she never does it back. like it's not a necessity or anything but she is in her own little world.
i don't want to stop being her friend but i can't confront her about this or she will pretty much hate me. what do i do??? thanks!
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