Best friend... help.?

Question

okay,

im going to tell the whole story, because it doesn't make sense as it is, so i may give you every detail I know.

so yesterday-

I called her at like 9am, and she said she would call me back, because she was on the other line with her dad. she never did actually call me back. I invited her to go to this zoo thing at the library, because I was babysitting & we going, and she loves animals.

but she had a doctor appointment & didn't know how long that was going to last. I text her a couple more times during the day, never back anything. When I got to work one of the people there said they saw her here [hyvee] with her boyfriend. I didn't ask what time.

I called her on my break [no answer], I text her and asked if she wanted to go to walmart with me when I was done with work [no answer]... then I called her when I was done with work [no answer]. She was myspace when I got home, but she never responded to any of my comments. I left her a couple of voicemail, and finally she

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Answer 1

I've been through the same thing. What i did was that I gave her some space and I just waited till whatever was going on to finish and she was herself again. so i suggest to just give her some space and wait for her to talk to you again. Oh and i bet she knows that you care about her by sending her all those texts and calls. so dont worry about that part. I wish you both the best!:]

good Luck!:]

Answer 2

She sounds like shes going through a really stressful time right now, and if shes shutting you out, theres really not much you can do except be there for her if she needs you.

I do find it quite odd that she would change her myspace because of this, as it will obviously lead to questions, which is maybe what she wants, a little attention.

Just let her know that you and all her friends are there for her, and suggest going out as a group - less awkward than just the two of you- sometimes to cheer her up.

I know shes your best friend, but sometimes everyone has a battle they need to fight alone.

Good luck x

Answer 3

I believe your friend is caught up with something and i believe it has nothing to do with you..

But if it does.. Then i believe that the best thing you could do now is give your friend some space.

Answer 4

It sounds like something happened to her in her personal life. Send her a box of chocolates (or her favorite candy) and a note saying how much she means to you, but don't try to contact her too much. She probably wants to be left alone.

Answer 5

she must be really busy or has something on her mind but you just need to give her a break just let the situation marinade for a few days and see what happens