Best friend or not??

Question

Well my best friend and I were friends since kindergarden (besides 3 &4) and she don't trust me????

If were we best friends for a LONG time now shouldn't she trust me and also I wanted to know her school ID bcuz me and my friends just for the fun of it see how close the numbers are and she didn't tell me it! She thought I was gonna steal money out of it!!!!!!!

And she saids that she don't trust me bcuz O spill one of her secrets on accident. like 4 years why can't she move on already. And shse gets me so mad bcuz of it!!!

What should I do to gain her trust which is totallt stupid because I should have lost it.

P.S. I don't show her trust

Answer 1

You Should Start Showing Her Trust And Say Your Really Sorry For What Happened But It Was A Accident And You Want To Start Again!!

Answer 2

I'm guessing that the two of you have a failure to communicate.  

Answer 3

Maybe you can show her, like tell HER a big secret and say "i trust you with this secret, but i want you to trust me too" If she doesnt trust you show her what a great friend she is and dont tell her anything untill she does. If she cant trust you then thats not a good friend,but im sure she will just show her that she can trust you, and say sorry for whatever you did before

Answer 4

maby she is just your friend  not your BEST friend.  

Answer 5

i have taken this as you being quite negative towards this 'so called best friend' and i can understand why she is losing all trust and faith in you. you need to be there for your best friends. a best friend is someone who you always go to, someone who will always be there for you when you need them, one to KEEP their secerts to yourself and one who you can tell your secrets to and they'd keep them to themselves also.

you told a secret of hers so it's clear to her that you do not trust her.

when i was in primary school, i had two best friends, a girl and a boy, the boy, who of which i am still best friends with and i am 17 and the girl who i had fallen out with in two last years of primary school, we made up just as we were finishing and we went our separate ways. i then had one from secondary school up until a few months back because i went behind her back telling people things that i promised i wouldn't tell and now i have lost her; it's not worth it!

tell her you're sorry! and BE THERE FOR HER! from the details up above, it's like you don't really care, you just wanted to moan; show her you care!

Answer 6

i think she's a friend, just kind of insecure.

Spilling a personal secret is like going to the mall without pants... embarrasing...

Answer 7

the best way to earn someones trust is to show them that you can be trusted-now thats a question you have to ask yourself, and you have to be truly honest with youself-have you really always been the best friend? do you really only want whats best for her? and once you answer those questios truthfully-only then can you start working on your relationship

Answer 8

She has trust issues. You just have to respect that. Some people aren't comfortable with sharing information about themselves. She's had bad experiences in the past, which is why she doesn't trust you. It's not you, it's her past experiences. So don't take it personally, that's even more annoying.

Answer 9

i don't trust people either, its not that shes afraid to trust you its actually nothing like that...she just may have a bad experience when she was younger

Answer 10

If u spill her secreets on accident u suld stop b'coz it will only make things worse. tell her the truff and all answers will be clear 2 u bebe. I think that u are doomed 2 not be best friend n e more bcoz its just not posible 2 be that way after so much truama, im not joking, this is the end 4 u.

BTW, u shuld steal the $$$ bcoz then, if u try to pretend to be her friend again, u can get somthing out of it.

dug F'real!

Piece.