Best friend problem. Help!?

Question

I have had this best friend since the 2nd grade but then when we got to the 4th grade she started acting different, by the 5th grade she was like that also also for the 6 and 7th grade, I thought she would just change but she hasn't!

By the way let me tell you how she acts:

When I hang out with another friend for like all recess or all day, she get mad and doesn't talk to me, and then the next day she acts normal, also she is selfish and when I feel pretty or good about myself, she just brings me down!But I know that my 2nd grade best friend is there somewhere, she is a good friend. I know it.

What should I do?

Answer 1

show her pictures of the past and that you miss the old friend inside of her

Answer 2

sounds like she needs to grow up, you should talk to her tell her how you feel and that you would like your old friend back

Answer 3

well I think you should go talk to her nicely

even though she acts like that..

but if she doesn't want to talk anymore then just leave her alone

maybe she just want some space

Answer 4

I guess you should talk to her about this. I think you should really try and get a new best friend. She sounds like she is not going to change. I know that it is hard  but sometimes life is moving on. You have probably changed some too. I am not saying that she shouldn't be your friend or best friend anymore, but I think you should get some new buddies. =]

Answer 5

talk to her and tell her how you feel and if shes still the same hang around with someone else sounds like she get jealous pretty easily i hate jealous friends never make them theyr not worth the trouble!

Answer 6

I think you've just outgrown her friendship and it's time to let go. She's an insecure person which is normal at that age, and some don't grow out of it for awhile if at all. Just continue being happy and secure with yourself like you are and find a new best friend. She sounds quite toxic to your self-esteem.

Answer 7

You know how people always say "Awww you were so cute and innocent when you were little." Well yeah...people change from that cuteness. Your friend is abusing your friendship. Just tell her that she needs to stop. And that if she continues to hurt you that you wont be her friend anymore. Just tell her the truth.

Hope i helped :]

Answer 8

tell her homie.

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Answer 9

Tell her how you feel, she might change, or she might not be the best friend you thought she was, find someone new.

Answer 10

Call her and calmly tell her how you are feeling about this entire thing. i remember when i was in elementary school and i was so mean to my best friend and she always stuck by me still. she moved to oklahoma an i have not seen her or herd from her since. i didn't even realize that i was so mean. if i could go back and change it i would.

Answer 11

she is a little bit jealous. She loves you so much that she is afraid to lose you. I had same problem,and she will continue acting like that if you don,t sit with her and talk about that. Ask her shy is she like that,if she continue be like that,believe me she is not your best friend,and she don,t deserve to be friend of person like you!!! :)

Answer 12

Well first of all tell her how you feel&&tell her it's not right to act this way.

Try to find some new friend's to hangout with.

If she keep's on acting this way, then that's when you need to come in&&talk to her.

She needs to know how you feel.

Good Luck:]!