Best friend troubles?

Question

It has hurt the relationship. Alot. Shes just...non purposley replacing me..... She has pictures of her and her best friend AAALLLLLL over her walls, and out of all the pictures me and her take not one is up there. She said she cant decide. I dont think thats true.

Answer 1

Okay--calm yourself down.  You're stuck with this cousin of yours until the day you die. You'll run into her at family parties, etc.

One thing you don't want is to be jealous of something that is not worth having a heartache over. In no time, your cousin will be in touch with you to tell you all about this new friend (I'm not sure if that's a good thing, let me reword that), in no time, your cousin will be in touch with you to gossip about her new friend.

Now don't you feel better?

Answer 2

get new friends and meet more people.

Answer 3

let her be friends..

Answer 4

girl it's not the end of the world. first calm down then find new friends  

Answer 5

I feel the exact same way. My friends are together and never want me with them. I feel jealous too. So I just meet my other friends i dont usually hang out with and have fun with them!

Answer 6

Don't worry, if she is your best friend then she will come around, until then just continue to be her friend. just move on, you will be alright, try not to worry about about it so much. you find  some new friends. good luck and god bless you.

Answer 7

The way I see it, this girl is your cousin. You will always have her in your life no matter what because she's related to you.

Everyone makes new friends, it isn't a bad thing that your cousin has found another friend. Because they just recently met it shouldn't be able to jeopardize your friendship in any way, if it's strong.

I think you need to talk to her if it's bothering you so much. Tell her you're just worried about what this new friendship will do to yours. You said you could tell her anything, so go for it. I'm sorry if this comes off mean, it's not what I intended.

Answer 8

aww sweety, I honestly thinking your working yourself up and you don't need to. If your best friend is also your cousin then your very lucky, they are going to be in your life forever no matter what. I'm guessing your a teenager or younger, and I can tell you that what seems like the end of the world now, will simply seem like something very small later on down the track. Communication is the best solution in situations like this. Talk to your best friend, tell them how you feel. You also need to know that you can have more than 1 best friend. I understand your protective and may think that they're are IT, but theres plenty of other people out there that you can befriend and can build a trust and friendship in that is just as strong. Don't feel down, your friendship with you best friend/cousin isn't over, she's entitled to make new friends, just as you are. Remember, you're family, the new girl isn't.....your a step ahead there ;) Hope i've helped a little

Answer 9

You dont have to be friends with her friend. Han out with each other when you can and let them hang out when they can. Be happy that she is happy. If you get jealous you may end up losing her all together.

Answer 10

ughh..too long, make it shorter and a little more inviting!!

Answer 11

aww i know how u feel this happend to me at the begging of this year so i tryed to get her attention big time i called her talked to her on msn wrote her cards and it worked but later on our friendship ended but not because of new friend somfin so

so ty whatever you can even bake her a cake or somfin lol

Answer 12

hmmmm....i think you should beat the sh*t out of the other girl.