Hi all!
Both my mother and my fiance's mother are going into overdrive trying to "help" us with wedding planning, and it's driving us both nuts.
Both our mothers are very controlling and both want to have significant input into our wedding - it is because of this that we have decided that we would like to organise our own wedding, and have let the mothers know if we need help we will ASK them for it (in the most loving way possible).
I can deal with my own mother alright, but it is very different dealing with H2B's mother. She is VERY bossy, very traditional, and because I don't know her well I feel very uncomfortable telling her "no".She also doesn't like people saying no to her.
H2B is no help, he doesn't want to cause waves so keeps out of it. It's causing me quite a bit of stress, as I don't like causing confrontations and I like everyone to be happy, but our wedding is 10mths away and ALREADY I feel as though I am losing control over it.
Any tips? x
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