Best way to have s*x.. me?

Question

Ohkay.. me and my bf have been going out for over 5months.. and i have 2 problems. one im on the pill so we havnt had s*x YET as ive had my period for 3 months (really light but still) and 2 before when i wasnt on it, we would try but every time he trys to put it in it hurts really bad and he has to pull out.Im a virgin.. is there any ways that wont hurt as much for the first time? or should i just bare it.. iv been to the doctors and she said everything was alryt down there..

Answer 1

well i think that you prbs need to relax and use plenty of lubrication :) make sure he takes it slow too!!!!! it never usually very comfortable ya first time xx

Answer 2

Some women do not lubricate naturally well. You might be one of them, so try using an artificial lube.

Answer 3

Have your boyfriend pleasure you with his tongue and fingers for a while to allow you to get lubricated naturally. If he has a large p***s, then make sure that you add some lubrication to it before he penetrates you. Try being on top for a while and tell him to allow you to control the pace. Until your hymen breaks, it will hurt. Take it slow and lubrication will help.  

Answer 4

hmm... it seems like your BF is in a hurry. Just take your time and tell him to take it easy. If it hurts too much, try some lube and if that still hurts too much, tell him to give you some time and try using a small toy of your liking until you've naturally stretched yourself out just enough for his p***s size. If you want him to be the only thing going in though then have him put a finger in until you're comfortable with that then two fingers and then try his p***s again... good luck...

Answer 5

if it hurts to try s*x how do you imagine a baby will fit through? just bear through it, it only hurts for a few seconds. unless hes larger than average, in which case it will hurt every time.

Answer 6

whats lubricate?

Answer 7

It may be because of the thickness of hymen. This happens very rarely.

You have to bear the pain till it tears.

Answer 8

you should be relaxed and trust him, when you are tense muscles will not stretch, that is why you feel pain.

one more thing, is that you should be well lubricated.

try being on top so you can control the penetration process.