Bestfriend falling for me?

Question

okay, i am 14. and i have a boyfriend that really love w/ all my heart. we're both bisexual. but so is one of my bestfriends. dont want to be w/ both, and m not leaving my bf. how can i tell her that dont like her? even though i lead her on by flirting (i cant help t, im not trying to cheat) ps, she has a straight bf who is also one of my bffs. he doesnt like the dea that she likes me... nether does my bf. help ??!

Answer 1

i think that first you should stop flirtung with the friend cause that is leading her on...and the best way to tell her is to be straight forward and honest so there is an understanding between you two. next, you cant help if ur straight bf doesnt like the idea...i mean his girlfriend is bi. just dont leave any stone unturned.

Answer 2

Just tell her directly that it should stop and your sorry 4 leading her on

and say you'll still be friends with her

Answer 3

talk to her mother she might help you

Answer 4

just tell her straight that she has to stop it.  apologize for possibly leading her on, but say that you love ur bf and want to be with him and only him, end of story.  tell her you would like to stay friends with her if you do.  if she's a good friend, she'll undrstand.

Answer 5

You're 14, so I'm assuming that she is around the same age, maybe a year or so different. You are going to have so many boyfriends and girlfriends, as well as best friends that come and go thru life. Telling her that you do not like her that way is not going to kill her. Sure it may break her heart for a week or so, but it will draw her bf and her closer, because she is going to run to his arms. And that will be the best thing for her as well. Don't lead her on, cause if you string her along for 3-4months, at such a young age, it may seem like a lifetime, and she will be even more upset, even more so cause you waited to tell her.  

Answer 6

idk your screwed

Answer 7

Where is John Madden to tells us what is going on with this situation?