Bestfriend or not you tell me??

Question

Hey it's me lindsey again... Yeah this time I'm asking if this person is a best friend or not??? I have this friend and we have been best friends since Kindergarden.. Well yeah as you all may know now I'm almost three months pregnant..... Well the only reason my baby's daddy left me is because of her she got him to leave me because she told him that she was falling in love with him and that she thought they would be better off then me and him.. All this even went on after i got pregnant she was still messing around with him knowing that i am having his kid!!!! Well now her ex- boyfriend is coming on to me what should i do????? I think it would be wrong to date him because she is my best friend and we have been through everything together and i know her like the front and back of my own hand.... what do i do?? Be a friend and not get with him?? Or do what she did to me and my baby daddy????

Lindsey

Answer 1

honestly for one u  may have been her best friend since kindergarten and u have been through everything together IDont know..i think she may be a little selfish  doesn't seems as if she doesnt want u to be happy. and thats a BIG rule in friendship ..always want your best friend to be happy. i may be wrong idk if i were u definitely keep in touch with her but maybe not be SO close with her to where she is too involved into ur personal life..and as of getting back at her by getting with her ex i wouldn't do it ..it would just bring you down to her level i think you should definitely be the more mature one in the situation.

Answer 2

I think that you should have a long talk to your friend where you talk about both of your feelings, and ask her if it is ok with her if you maybe date her ex for a little, just to see what it is like, but nothing serious just yet

Answer 3

i would tell you to get back at her and get with her ex but since your pregnant that isent really the best thing to do because thats a little nastey but i def. wouldnt say shes your best friend i wouldnt even call her your friend a friend wouldnt do that to another friend it sounds to me like she has some jealousy issues or she is one of those people who cant watch someone be happier then she is i wouldnt let her around my future boyfriends and you shouldnt want the man of your future baby either because she should have never got down on her level and hurt you like that it sounds to me like you need a hole new tree of friends and relax for now and have your baby then go searching for the man of your dreams and leave the dogs and a holes for your friend

Answer 4

first obviously she is not ur friend:D and second if u go out with her ex bf u will be like her so i suggest u forget about him and foget about and move on because these kind of things if u dont handle them well they will hunt u down for ever so cut ur friendship with her cos if she did care about u she wouldnt hit on the father of ur baby and dont be like her and date her ex .good luck  

Answer 5

yep best freinds

Answer 6

Chicky,i'd say forgive her,but never trust her again with any of your bf's.And it does sound like she is jealous.And my guess is,because you got something that she would never be able to get:REALLY NICE GUYS.As for her ex boyfriend,like one person said,i'd say go for it to,but then ur preggies. If he knows ur preggies, and he's still coming on to u,just tell him that at the moment ur going thru a rough patch,and if ur not looking for a relationship as yet, ask him to just be friends with u,until u have thought over what it is that you are wanting.Until then,DONT TRUST HER AGAIN.IF SHE CAN DO IT TO YOU ONCE,THEN SHE CAN AND MOST LIKELY WILL DO IT TO YOU AGAIN.

Answer 7

stay away from her and your babys daddy

go talk to the other guy...on/off for 10 years wow long time

she deffinately isnt a friend that is just super cheap adn tacky... has she done thin kind of thing before.....

deff dont date her ex

Answer 8

Stay with your girl. I just lost my best friend because I slept with her baby's daddy. She is about six months prego...and I slept with her man. I feel bad every single day I wake up. I betrayed her. You might feel like that, you just need to forgive her for what she had done because revenge is not the best thing to do. My best friend that I lost...has hurt me more then I let anyone know and I got her back by doing that with her man. It wasn't worth it. Take my advice stay with her...later down the road you'll be twice as happy that you didn't.