Bestfriend problems?

Question

I have a good friend, mary. We went on a vacation with her cousin and i ended up really liking him. I'm 70% sure he liked me back. We half-jokingly agreed to watch 'secret life of the american teenager' every week (me, mary, and her cousin). Tonight i called her because it was the 1st night of the 'tradition'. i was soo excited to finally talk to him again! but then i said "so we're gonna call him, right?" and she said "no.he's going to think you're stalking him." so i said bye and hung up.

Do you think she just doesn't want me to like him, or possibly have a relationship with him? Or something else? It's bugging me soo much

thanks

katie

Answer 1

She probably just doesn't want to lose you as a friend...maybe she'll think that you'll only want to be spending time with her cousin.

Answer 2

some people seems to develop an bad relationship between friends when a friend dates a relative some times it's not good to proceed with such idea of getting to no your friends cousin move on and let it go because it seems that she don't want you to proceed or it could be he may not be interested him self do not push your self on nobody

Answer 3

She either doesn't want him to like you or she's jealous.

Answer 4

She probably thinks that if you go out with him, you won't spend much time with her. I think you should talk to her about it and ask her if she would think that it was okay for you to date her cousins. But, even if you date him, she will be happy for you no matter what. hope this helps

Answer 5

Why would she say he'd think you are stalking him? Have you been talking to him since your vacation? I guess all you can do now is wait for the cousin to contact you if y'all agreed to watch the show and talk about it. I think your friend might be jealous that if you started dating her cousin then you will not remain very good friends with her.

Hopefully the cousin should contact you if he was attracted to you pretty soon.

Answer 6

well it could be that she might find it strange you liking her cousin but you should just ask her about it