Bf problems. girls and guys help xx.?

Question

Is it normal for couples to argue a lot? =S

Me and my bf usually get into arguements almost everyday...

He has more of a sensitive personality and i'm also like that too..&& he always trys to tell me what to do but im more independent in my decisions...

We have been going out for 4 months but whenever we talk about our problems things usually are fine for a bit.. but always go back to bad...&& throughout all this we still love each other.

Is this just a sign that things will get worse? Have any of you guys been in a relationship similar to this?..

Answer 1

give him head

Answer 2

You need to find ways to encourage each other, rather than trying to assert control over each other.

Differences can either complement, or compete, if you are constantly competing, you'll fight, and your relationship will suffer.

Learn to communicate, look for and encourage the best in each other, otherwise, just break up now.

Luck

Answer 3

If you have arguments every week, it's not normal.  It's too frequent. It means you two do not have chemestry, it's not real love...it's better to take your own way and find someone more compatible.  Sorry.  Best Wishes.

Answer 4

noooppezz me and my guy get along very well he treas me like icing on the iccream and  i treat him like the cone see he alwys puts me on top first he thinks bout me cares i have no arguments with him xcept love

Answer 5

It usually is a sign of a breakup waiting for a time and place to happen. Did you always fight? And have you done anything to make him question your judgment? You need to answer these questions to really find out what is going on. If you are talking and getting along one day. Next day you are back to fighting, you are not resolving the real issue. Good Luck!

Answer 6

its ok..u care and him just care toooo much about each other

Answer 7

I had a arguing man, we are no longer together after 4 years. But we are best friends and we still argue. But only 4 months that is not a long time, I say stick with it ya'll still have some adjusting to do. But if it continues it may not work.

Answer 8

I'm sorry girl couples should fight sometimes but not that often. oppostits attrect.

You might want to start seeing other peeps.

Answer 9

You two still need to figure each other out. Once you start getting to know what pushes each others buttons, you should make a conscious effort not to push it. You should make a conscious effort to also figure out what you're arguing about to not keep arguing about it. If the problem is solved, don't bring it up again... otherwise, if you two just can't stop arguing.. It may not work out the way you want it to... good luck to you.

Answer 10

my friend argues with her boyfriend alot but they always get back together. she tells me everthing cuz im close and i try and cheer her up. tell your closest friend stuff to it will make you feel better. dw aboutthe fights, u will okay in the end:)

Answer 11

U two only have 4 months and already arguing?

Sounds bad....like u have personalities that clash....

but if u 2 love each other, thats all that matters.

I believe its a sign that u 2 need to open up and talk about ur problems. And yes i have had a relationship similar to this....

Answer 12

" he always trys to tell me what to do but im more independent in my decisions." -he might not really know he's doing it...

certain kinds of arguing is fine...

But many people stay with people who aren't necessarily right for them.  Either that or one(or both) of the partners' tolerance for most of "the little things" hasn't quite matured/developed yet...

High levels of "bicker-y" confrontation early in a relationship will make both partners miserable and the relationship un-worthwhile if it's not fixed.  Judging on how early this has come up in the relationship, it will most likely get worse if not dealt with.

You both have to be willing to make changes.

***EDIT

Both of you need to keep in mind,

=Not all battles are worth fighting=

Answer 13

arguements in relationships are just to make the bond between the both of u stronger. but if too many arguements, u should try to take a little break and then think it over if its working out or not. everyone has issues like these and thats the best way, i took a break in a relationship with a gguy i was crazy aboout but just we argued too much. during the break we sorted out all our issues and hooked up again and it the new us lasted pretty long.

Answer 14

yup im in one now...been with the guy for a year. we're both stubborn (hes italian and im french...bad mix lol) and we want our opinions heard no matter what. we have been working on a lot though so things are NOT as bad as they were. if we feel like things are getting to be a full blown argument one of us leaves the room or hangs up the phone and then calmly after about 10 minutes we talk about how we feel about a certain situation. like i said we dont have big fights as much...maybe once or twice a month and a few disagreements without yelling here and there...but its much better than it was. if he loves you and you love him he should be willing to just sit and talk with you instead of fight. its hard when you can be so set in your ways but the key in a relationship is honesty and COMMUNICATION. oh and dont let him tell you what to do....if he tries to control you...LEAVE!

oh and FYI disagreeing with each other is NORMAL you cant agree on evrything