Bf won't talk to me and I don't know why?

Question

I have been with my bf for about 3 months. We have dated before for two, and then he broke up with me. About 3 months later he starts asking me if I would ever go out with him again, and I was reluctant and said no for several months. But about 4 months later, ended up going back out with him. This has been going good, he seems to really like me, but recently he won't talk to me. I'm not sure why. We haven't fought or anything, he has just stopped talking.

I don't really understand why though. There's nothing that I can think of that I did wrong? And I'm really confused. I'm not sure what I should do. I've just kinda been waiting for him to talk to me to see how things are. Has anyone else been in this situation? If so would you be able to help?

Answer 1

I think its because you and him just do not know one another that

well. I would ask him why he is so quiet and see what he says after all

communication is the glue to all relationships no matter how short or

how long good luck to you.

Answer 2

Well boys have stages...and when he wont talk to u fir another week or so,,if he don't then he is prob, cheating on you,,im very sorry

*best of luck to ya!*

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Answer 3

idk how old you are, but i'm 37 and have quite a bit of experience in life. If he is being that wishy washy, i would assume that he has someone else he is interested in. Thats a sure sign of it. I'm sorry if this hurts you, but unfortunately thats how people work. I would try to move on if i were you because do you really want to be with someone that you have to ask to give you time or attention. my father used to tell me to not waste time on someone who will not waste their time on me.  

Answer 4

well girl this has happened to me and the problem wasn't me it was him he wasn't sure wat he wanted I broke it of with him and after like a month I saw him and he told me why he acted like that he told me that it was cause he liked another girl and he wanted to forget her by using me and he couldn't so he stoped talking to me and that's when I broke it off. I hope this will help!

Answer 5

A similar thing to that happened to me. It really bummed me out but then I just let him have some of his own time for awhile and later on found out he just had some issues and didn't know how to talk about them. Might not be the case for you just an idea. Good luck though.

Answer 6

like the last time, he found someone else to date

he's done that again, sounds like

stop Trying to date him, just move on

he's Using you

Answer 7

If you have waited for him to talk to you and he hasnt yet then i would straight up ask him what his problem is. thats not cool for him to ignore you like thats and its not fair for you to keep wondering what you did...  ask him..  

Answer 8

Did you ever talk to him and get an answer to why he broke up with you before? You need to talk to him when he is not angry and try to get into his head, maybe after s*x pillow talk.

Answer 9

maybe hes just taking a little break...

maybe he wants to just think about the relationship to see what he really wants to see if he really think its the best thing to stay with you or not...

idk maybe you should call him and tell him that you really need to talk to him and just ask him if he wants to stay with you or not

i hope i helped:))

Answer 10

The same kinda thing happened to me where things were going awesome with my girlfriend then one day she seemed like a totally different person and i was lucky to talk to her once a day. The only thing i can tell you is to talk to him and see whats up. Dont seem to pushy though and be like i want you soooo bad. Maybe hes been busy or he might have met another person, which is what may have happend. It sucks, but this is what happened with me. good luck...

Answer 11

He wants out again... so let him go before he breaks your heart.

Answer 12

then really hes not interested... dont waste your time with him.. your better than that :-)