Bff and guy trouble...

Question

im so frustrated right now. i've liked this guy jake for 2 years. my bff anna lives in new york and i live in vermont. anna met jake at the county fair last year, and they hooked up. i was upset because she knew i liked him, but she never mentioned it. i didn't say anything cuz she liked him a lot. then they decided to have a long-distance relationship cuz she comes up about once a month. that lasted about 5 months. it ended in march. i liked him the whole time, and i still like him. last week was the county fair again, and i was hanging out with jake and i really really like him. anna was there too and i wanted to tell her i like him but i couldn't because he's her ex, even tho i've known him for 16 years and i liked him first but whatever, and then she told me that she still likes him a lot. im so frustrated. i can't tell her how much its hurting me because i think she'll be mad at me and i don't kno what to do. please help me!

Answer 1

what i would do is make her promise whatever you tell you two will still be friends no matter what and explain too her she'll understand

Answer 2

I think that ya should just quit having feelings for him. Ya can't just end yas friendship over a guy. Guys come and go and there's fishes on the sea still! Talk to her about it, you might never know if she's willing to sacrifice him over you.

Answer 3

even if she is your bff you have to think about if she truly cared about would she go for a guy you like? you really shouldnt let a guy get between you but is the guy really worth it? i guess you know if you never try.

Answer 4

theres other guys out there. hes not worth your time if hes gonna choose your friend over you.  

Answer 5

he sounds like a complete jerk don't worry move on

Answer 6

move on  he is not worth it sounds like he is a jerk btw he is a player.....