Posting this for a friend... please help!
I'm a teacher and there is a foster child, K, at our school with whom I've made a real connection. K is a mixed-race male. I've always known I wanted to adopt, & adopting from other races isn't an issue with me or DH. However, my dad will probably have a big problem with it.
I love my dad. He has faults, but who among us doesn't? His major fault, IMHO, is his racist views of African-Americans. I am torn between honoring my parents and taking care of an orphan. My parents are Christian, which is where I got my views, but my dad was shot at during the race riots & went through many other things that instilled this wrongness into his psyche. I'm not excusing his views, just explaining. Now ith K entering the picture, I need to talk to my father about the reality of this adoption.
I'd love to hear advice, stories of your similar experiences, how you dealt with them, and how they are going. Please don't bash my dad! I know he's wrong.
Tags: