Bi-curious question!?

Question

I've been pondering this for a while..

I just met this girl at school, she sits with us at lunch. We're friends. Right off the bat, she told us that she was bi. That really made me think about myself, because before I met her, I was wondering if I myself was bi.

Yesterday she came over and I told her that I might be bi. I haven't ever kissed any girls or anything. I'm wondering if I should kiss her. She kisses her other bi friends all the time, and she's even had a gf before, and a bf.

I wonder how I'd go about doing it. I don't want a relationship or anything. I just want to experiment!

Any advice? I'm really confused about everything XD

Mature answers please. (i'm 14 btw)

Answer 1

if you dont justt want to tell her

that you want to experiment

you should drop hints with her.

like flirt a little

but nothing that make her think you like her

unless you do.

but if your not afraid to just say it

then id just say it.

but say it to her wheres theres not many people around

that might make her feel awkward.

Answer 2

I'm 14 aswell and I'm bi there's a boy in my year (don't know hi sexuality fingers crossed) and all I want to do is hold him and kiss him but I think if you just want to experiment then your probably not bisexual but every1s differant it's just I didn't start by wanting to experiment I started by fancying some1 then it spread and now there's almost all the boys and all most all the girls it can actually be painful seeing the world this way

Answer 3

Well, to figure out if you are Bi or not then you should try it on some one, if ur comfortable with them. And if you don't like kissing another girl then just stick with boys. Experimentation is fun, let me tell you. I was none bi before like I only liked guys when when I experimented it wasn't that bad, and now I have a gf. Yous see you just have to try things to know how you really feel about them.

Answer 4

dear, u r only 14 for god sake?

go and play in the garden? and leave this to the adult, cheeky monkey.

Answer 5

You just want a taste of her cherry chapstick? Doesn't mean you'll be in love tonight?

lol sorry  that song just popped into my head automatically when I read your question.

In all seriousness, I have been through that bi-curious stage and have experimented with my best friend. I didn't really feel anything when I kissed her though, I just straight away knew I was bi.

You could kindly ask her about wanting to experiment, although since your're not close it's for not sure that she will accept. But you could try..

If so, don't think about it too much and just let the kiss take place naturally. If you feel something you would know it. It'll be like a tingly sensation in your lips that'll make you feel good inside and wanting MORE! lol

Hoped this helped :P

Answer 6

if she does it to her other bi friends, then go for it!! have fun!!