Big Brother/Sister program?

Question

I was interested in trying to become a big sister in one of these programs. If you have done it or know about it, what is it like? Thank you :)

Answer 1

My friend does this and if I was going to be in the same city for the year commitment, I would sign up as well. Good for you - they always need new big sisters (there are huge waiting lists for little sisters).

I disagree with what the first poster said: you do NOT get to choose the girl you mentor. The program takes a lot of care to match you with someone based on personality, likes/dislikes, etc. (For example, they wouldn't put a sports lover with a couch potato.) But, there is definitely a long interview process prior to the acceptance. You need to have a clean police record and submit a long application form, as well as taking part in an orientation and sit for interviews with the staff.

My friend loves it. Some of the other big sisters she knows have had the same girl from age 6 until they graduate high school, and years later are still like sisters. So it really can be a long-term thing, which is great. You do need to have at least one year to commit, though.

Answer 2

did it about 25 years ago , so do not know of any changes. it was a good expereince overall.you go through a good  amount of testing before being accepted. you get to choose a child , based on things you like. counting on the family you can keep the kid over nite or the weekend.you track your time and in contact with the counsler. if you want to know anything else email me.

Answer 3

Big Brothers Big Sisters is a great program.  It's fun and rewarding.  You help out a child, and, believe it or not, they help you.  I looked forward to hanging out with my little sister every week.  We went to the zoo, went to the movies, the beach, the fair, all those things.  Stuff that "grown-ups" don't really every get together to do.  There is a lot of responsibility involved though, so keep that in mind.  A lot of times these children come from bad families, communities, etc.  They deal with a lot of things that you may feel uncomfortable talking about.  Be prepared to really be a mentor to this girl, you won't just be her friend.

There are a few different programs which you can get involved in.  Check out the Big Brothers Big Sisters website for your community to find out which ones they have.  You may also want to call the volunteer coordinator and discuss with her that you are interested and tell her what interests you about the program.  She then will be able to suggest which program, if any, that you should do.