Big Problems with my ex-boyfriend! Help please!!?

Question

Okay so my friend was talking to him to find out if he would try to get back at me because I apparently broke his heart. Also we just went out for about a month. Also she didn't say are you going to get back at her? She just brought my name up by saying Hold On Andrea is calling me. This is when he said I am going to get back at her & make her life a living h**l. My cousins are all going to be at our school next year and some of them are seniors and they're gonna annoy her and call her all the time and we all know where she lives. When she told me this I thought WTF! That's immature. I mean I could understand if I cheated on him or something but I didn't. I JUST broke up with him and thats it!

Does anyone have some suggestions as to what I should do? Also all his cousins are shorter than me except for like 2. lol. And a few of them like me. I'm 5'6 kinda tall and I'm a girl so it's not like they'd beat me up or throw me in a trashcan. What's the worst they would do to me?

Thanks!

Answer 1

he is your ex, so give him the finger, and walk away.

forget about him he sounds retarded.

Answer 2

you're 14.. get over it, life goes on... and you will meet a lot of more mature guys in high school

Answer 3

He's probably all talk. Just ignore it. But if he does go along with the plan, just call the popo, and get him charged with some harrasment.

Answer 4

It is just talk trust me he won't do anything. He's just a big jerk if i was you i would slap hime round the face.

Answer 5

He is all talk.  

Forget about it!

Everything will be fine.

Answer 6

how does a heart get broken after a month grow up

Answer 7

You only have control over your own actions & reactions...

Try to behave in the way that is right for you.  If they start harrassing you, try to stay in control of yourself...do not sink to a low level...you should always be able to be proud of your behavior.

I'm not sure how your relationship is with your parents, but you might want to give them a heads up if things start to get unpleasant.

But just wait, behave with dignity and it may well be that nothing happens.  I find it hard to believe that seniors are going to spend their time trying to harrass a freshman just because their cousin asks them to!!  They might say sure...but just blow it off.

Be yourself!  Be the mature person you are, say nothing negative about him & try to have some fun!

Good luck!

Answer 8

thats g*y. just stand up to him. and let him know he cant scare you.

Answer 9

I would suggest you give your parents a heads up so if the boys decide to try and do something to your house then you're parents will have a decent idea of who did it.

Other than that - your ex doesn't have to be on good terms with you, but he does need to act maturely otherwise he could get in trouble.