Big brother problems?

Question

I have a brother and he always annoys me (at least 5 times a day). So I always get in fights with him (and I promise to myself I will never talk to him again) but after 30 minutes he suddenly starts talking to me as if nothing happens, and I fall in that trap and start talking to him then he annoys me again. and if I ignore him he will keep blocking my path until I talk to him. When he's my friend I definitely know that when I am an adult I will ignore him and there's nothing he can do to stop that and I am trying to convince my mom to put him in college so he doesn't go to my school because he has failed his first A levels and wants to try again.

I just want a normal brother that talks about girls and cool stuff. I wish he wasn't there and I wish my cousins were my brothers.

And when someone is bothering me at school my brother wont do anything until about two weeks but by then I get my brothers friends on them because I like my brothers friends way more than my brother and they like me.

Answer 1

Hello

My brother is a year older then me and sometimes i cant stand him.

Sometimes i feel like i wish he wasn't around but then i come to realize in the end he is still my family and it doesn't matter how much we don't get along he will always be my brother.

With that ignoring your brother thing, i've tried it too. When i was younger i'd convince myself that i wont speak to him again but it never lasted.

I think you should just accept the fact he is your brother and even if your not real close with him, he is still family and in the end your family should always be there for you.

Try seeing things from his point of view.

You don't have to all of a sudden start being best friends but you should still try your hardest to be nice instead of wishing other people were your brother instead. But i know how you feel, i've felt that way before.

Maybe you could sit down and talk to him about it, nicely let him know how you are feeling.

It's up to you but try not to let it bother you too much.

Hope it works out hun

x

Answer 2

go places where he is not.go shopping.a friends house.just take a walk.get a part time job

Answer 3

I had the same problems with my 3 brothers. We always fought and argued and kicked and bit each other. But NOW.. they are my best friends.

Its just because you guys are young. Believe me when you really need him, he will be there.

Dont wish anything that you would not want to come true. Because if it does.. you will regret it for a long time.