Big problem, Life changing...

Question

What do i do? Boyfriend gone, parents hate me, and the sad thing is I am almost 3 months... What do i do?

Answer 1

Parents probably dont hate you, just that dreaded "disappointed" coldness.  Believe me, they'll get over it!

Get help from your parents.  The Boyfriend is apparently not mature enuff to deal with a real-life result of your shared relationship.  Boo on him!

Answer 2

My boyfriend just left me, I'm nine weeks pregnant, and I also have no idea what to do, my mom is supportive, but there is no way I want to live with her for a long time yet, and my dad wants me to get an abortion, it would be paid for, but I don't think I want to do that, I want the baby. Sorry Idk what to tell you, but I thought you would like to know that you aren't the only one.

Answer 3

You are correct. This will be life changing. You will now have someone to care for for the next 18 yrs or make the difficult decision to give your baby up for adoption.  

Your parents are probably very hurt right now. It will take them time to get over their disappointment. I know. I have been there this past yr.

You need to start making better decisions now. You need to make the baby a priority and put him/her first. Hopefully your parents will see that you will be mature and want to make the best decision for the baby.

I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend's parents are not supportive. Hopefully your boyfriend will come around and support you. Give him time.

I pray you will not even consider aborting him or her. Go to a Pregnancy Center and they will help you. They helped my daughter.

Answer 4

You are just going to have to tough it out.  My daughter's father left me when I was 3 months, after being together 4 years and engaged.  My mother wasn't mad with me, but my dad sure was.  There's nothing you can do but pray.  Things will get better with time.  If you ever need someone to talk to, you can always message me, I've been there.