Big! problem! WHO TO STAY WITH1!=(

Question

my dad lives in florida and my mom lives in Rhode Island they had a divorce 4 yrs ago and i am on a late vacation with my mom. my other sister just went back with my dad to live cause she was on vacation. my parents thinks she is a bad example to me and only my mom wants me to stay with her. i wanna be with my mom and dad i try convincing her to move to florida but she is scared of pest i told her she could call pest control but she no! my dad takes me fun places but wont let me have a dog. but my mom will let me have whatever pet i want so WHO SHOULD I STAY WITH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Ok first question is DUMB both of ur parents love u ALOT probably equal and i would say choose the one u think would take care of u better treat u right dont hit u stuff like that and are parents about a DOG no i would pik the one who u think will be a better influence or who sets a better example so thats just my opinion the others are just dumb i would know trust me

Answer 2

sweet heart this question belongs in the family/relationships section but i'd say who cares about pets..or fun places??? stay with the parent who loves you the most..this is a question of mom or dad, who cares for you the most, not the one who buys u lavish items and all.  

Answer 3

The material stuff probably sounds important (i wouldn't really say a dog is a material item) but it should really only depend on who you feel more comfortable with, whatever you do, don't let them get inside your head, because that could end up really bad.

Answer 4

Your question breaks my heart.  Your parents divorced for THEIR sake.   They will live the rest of their lives for their sake too. Your Mom won't go to Florida for your sake any more than she would stay married to your father for your sake. Both divorced parents, if they are at all decent, will feel guilty about what their selfishness has done to their kids, and they will do what they individually can to make up for it, for their sake, not yours. Mothers typically do this with the hugs and the apple pie. Fathers do it with the ball games and the bling.

If you really must and can choose, go with the one that you feel cares most about you - not the one that offers the biggest bribe.  Finally, become familiar with Social Services that are available to you.  A school councillor, perhaps. You are far too young to be alone, Son, and far too many youngsters have found themselves getting in trouble because nobody cared enough to teach them better. It sounds as though your sister has already gone down that road.They wind up in jail or shot dead in some slimey gutter. Please, don't be one of them!