Big problem.. what's wrong!! Girls help needed!?

Question

Well, first of all i'm 16 and a half years old now.. I'm russian, but i live the whole "high school" year in lebanon (since dad works there), and i spend every summer in my country, russia.. in moscow.

I have never had a gf till now, my friends began getting gfs when they were like 14. I know i can't get a gf for 3 months (summer) because that would be really bad leaving her really soon.

But i know it's very bad that i don't have a gf and i feel like unormal because i never had one.

My friends (girls and boys) tell me that i have a good personality, that i care about people, people can trust me, i'm very funny, sweet etc.. But i'm a bit shy sometimes (like i rarely do the first step in order to talk to the girl), and i'm a futur musician, i have a band, i play piano, guitar, keyboads and write my own music. I'm half pro in soccer (been playin since i was 2 y/o). I read a lot, i know a lot of information about different stuff.. i do my own animations and comics on pc (write script and do everything else..)

That's me:

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Short hair looks very bad on me.. (just so u know..)

Plz tell me what's wrong with me, why i can't get a gf.. help me plz.. I feel really horrible :(

I know i'm not smiling in the pics lol, i don't have any smiling pics uploaded on the internet ^_^

And i wear different styles of clothes, i was just wearing this that day.. not like always i wear that..

Thanks from now!

Answer 1

aw you're cutee

but you need a diff hairstyle. a lil trim. and a style.

You can dance .. you can jive .. having the time of your life

See that girl .. watch that scene .. diggin' the dancing queen ♥♥♥.

Answer 2

Don't feel under pressure to pair up with a girl just because you are 16 and others are doing that. You sound like you are living a full and varied life which also includes friends. Having a girlfriend is the start of the mating ritual and really this should not be rushed into. Nothing is wrong with you, your mind is busy with music and sport and healthy group activities. You are developing as an individual and this is to be applauded. Be yourself and live your life on your timetable not feel obliged to conform just because others are experimenting with relationships. Relax and enjoy being you.

Answer 3

ha ha, hey its no big deal that you have not had a girlfriend yet. Having a girlfriend in it self is not what you should be worrying about, just worry about finding a girl that is good enough for you. Because trust me there is nothing wrong with you! You are handsome, you sound intelligent, you seem very nice, and I'm positive there are tons of girls that would love to date you.

But I know how you feel, I have felt the same way. I soon realized that I should just focus on being me and enjoying life. Then if I should get so lucky to find somebody who loves me, then that would be splendid!

But just remember that there is nothing wrong with you and Mrs. Right is out there.

Answer 4

Your alright. :]

Answer 5

hahahahahah where are you at???

Answer 6

you don't look fresh.fix your hair,smile

Answer 7

Try not giving a **** what anyone thinks about you.

Put yourself out there when other will not, even if girls dont swarm you, you're developing a **** ton of skills.

Answer 8

sooooory buddy but you look like a stoner

=/

Answer 9

Aw, I wouldn't worry about it. You seem like an awesome guy that's just a little shy. It's hard for girls to approach shy guys you know. I would say you need to smile more, people who at least look happy attract other people. But I really wouldn't worry about it. You seem hella cool, but I'm sort of bias I guess, because I find russians to be hella attractive. And pianists. And soccer players. (Seriously, you sound pretty awesome to me)

Seriously, there's plenty of girls that would love to date you I bet, just wait for the right one and focus on things other than girls. It's when I wasn't looking to be with anyone that I met my best boyfriend to date.

Answer 10

Aww you're cute! But you look kind of scary.. ^_^

There's nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend. It's best to start dating during college (but even that is inconvenient because you're so busy with school) because high school romances are fake. People who date in high school hardly ever have anything that is truly love. They just do it to gain popularity, etc. There's no reason to date when you're a kid because you will gain nothing from it. Except maybe experience. But even without it, you get just as much education about it from other people, but you are not feeling the pain.

Answer 11

Aw, I wish you would smile b/c you're totally cute. I love your hair color and eyebrows. Then, you have those gorgeous eyes. There HAVE to be girls who like you. You are probably picky when it comes to finding someone who you'd like to date (which is good!) and just don't realize it.

I am kind of like you. Good looking, talented (erm, sounds like I'm bragging), a little shy, but never date much. I would definitely be interested in you but wouldn't let on unless you flirted with me a bit and gave me some encouragement!

All of the people your age are dating carelessly and probably taking what they can get.

Usually, when I start putting all of my concentration on myself and my talent/hobbies, some guy will come along out of nowhere. It seems when I don't think about not having a boyfriend, THAT is when they start flocking. It's like they can sense you don't care at the moment, and that's suddenly appealing. Anyway, you have nothing to worry about!