Big problem with my new girlfriend...she just told me that she has never had an o****m..can anyone help???

Question

well i recently start going out with the girl for about two weeks...she told me her secret that she has never had an o****m...she said that she has had s*x many times.....isnt it even possible for women not to have orgasms??? is there any certain thing i can do to make her o****m or ***??

Answer 1

i can relate to her some women cannot reach o****m through intercourse you may want to try the oral thing.

Answer 2

You must feel a lot of pressure now!!! If she has been this open and honest so far then what you should is ask her what she would like you to do to help her have an o****m! You should make sure she is as relaxed as possible - this can stop a women having an o****m when she is tense.Spend a LOT of time on foreplay for her too.  And to be honest there are a lot of women out there who have not had an o****m with a partner!

Answer 3

try oral on her..most women do not o****m vaginally

Answer 4

i dont think my girlfreind has either just take her somewhere privite and ask her what she wants you to do

Answer 5

f*** her really slowly then speed up it works

Answer 6

If you try oral make sure you do it good. You can look up "oral techniques" in yahoo or google to find ways to make her o****m. I had that same problem until i met my fiancee'. He wasn't scared to do that for me. Another way is to get her to relax as much as possible, somehow. Because if she's not relaxed at all, then she won't o****m. Last, but not least, be patient. You must be willing to do whatever it takes to make her o****m.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Girls are externally and/or internally stimulated.  If this girl hasn't gotten hers through s*x, she's probably a person who needs to be stimulated externally.  Like the others said, oral would be the direction to go- she probably just needs direct stimulation.

Answer 9

of course it is possible. it is in fact very common.

finger her gently, or try oral s*x. make sure you are gentle with her, as this must be a sensitive subject for her. spend a lot of time together, get close in bed , start with kissing - really get her turned on. then you can have s*x - keep moving a lot, or finger/oral her.

good luck!

x*x

Answer 10

most women dont orgasim until they are into their 20s but then again i do all the time...try and think about her and lasting for her and concentrate on pleasing her then thngs will fall into place...besides practice makes perfect  

Answer 11

Yes it's possible that a women doesn't have orgasms.  Its not easy for all women.  When you start having them, it becomes easier, and sometimes you can 'learn' to find what does it for you.

Best thing she can do is relax and enjoy herself.  'Trying' too hard to *** or focusing on trying to *** can make it more difficult.

Hope you have fun trying!! x

Answer 12

to be honst it depends on her emotional state

Answer 13

heres what you doo l**k her C**t which is the pink thing between her lips really slowly and gently then play wit it wit your fingerss then slowly work ur way to her p***y hole and finger her till u got lots of come on ur fingers... do the come here motion wit 2 fingers suck on her nipples then go for it roll ur stomach when ur ****** her slide it in and out madd slow for like 2 min then pound the **** outta her for like 2 min then slow alternate it and if all fails stick a finger in her *** it tightens everything up for her and makes her feel amazinnn lol

Answer 14

Yea, I agree, orally is great but if you've never done it b4 you need to go and google a picture of a v****a first. Find out where the clitoris is. You also might try using your fingers with a little k-y on them this seems to work great also, be sure to ask her what feels right, she will definately let you know if your doing it right, good luck!

Answer 15

Talk to her about how she wants to approach things.  If you come across as "trying" to make her o****m, she may feel under pressure to perform.  Maybe take an approach of 'trying new things just for fun' for both of you.  Make it playful and not a chore.

Answer 16

Yes it is possible, and actually, I think most of us go through our first experiences without even knowing what an o****m even feels like...

I suggest loks of foreplay, good lube, and not sticking with the same position all the time... If she's comfortable enough, woman on top will let her "do her thing" and provide the best stimulation to get the big O.

Good Luck! (No pressure, huh?)