I know this question is quite controversial.
I am wanting peoples opinion on step families vs biological, the situation is I left my ex when I was pregnant as he has a drug problem and was emotionally abusive and was and still is involved with some pretty nasty people, I still encouraged involvement with his son as I felt even though he was a bad partner I should give him benefit of the doubt to be a good father however he treats his son more as a trophy and doesn't care for his well being his son is currently seriously ill and all his concern is getting the "time he's entitled too" even if it comes at the risk of his son. He doesn't seem to realize that a child is a life that needs time, attention, love and care.
I have a new partner now and have had for the past 9 months my son is 11 months old. My new partner has 5 children of his own which are around my sons age and they all get along fantastically and my new partner is a fantastic father a great role model and my son absolutely adores him.
The question is should I continue to encourage the relationship with his biological father and allow his involvement in his life up to 50% of the time or should I encourage the relationship with my partner and fight to keep my exes time limited till he has got his addiction and life in order?
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