Birth Control talk with parents please help!?

Question

Okay, I'm a 16 turning 17 year old who has had s*x. I want to be put on birth control but i don't know how to talk to my mom about it. Can someone please give me some advice please?

Answer 1

Simple, ask her if she's ready to be a grandma, then when she says no, ask her if you can go on the pill.

Or you could do it ina much more calm way. Talk to your parents, tell them that you want to be responsible and cut any risks down, so you'd really appreciate it if they helped you get the pill. I'm sure they'll just be glad your thinking about protecting yourself.

Good luck.

:)

Answer 2

I agree with Tina

Answer 3

i agree with tina but i also feel that we aren't here to tell you what you should and shouldn't do. you're being responsible about it and i'm proud of you for it. i've been on birth control since i was 16 for acne, so you could use acne as a reason at first, but it might just have to be a very uncomfortable talk you're gonna have with your parents. just straight up tell them you want it just in case. they might object, but just leave it at that. be mature about it and don't argue. they'll most likely say no and be like "ok, i just wanted to know if you'd be ok with it." and i'm sure within a few weeks they'll talk to you about it again. just getting it out there and in their heads is really important.

good luck!

Answer 4

Just be honest with them, don't argue or get defensive. Be respectful and listen to their input without cutting them off mid-sentence because you don't agree. Tell them that you have goals in life and a pregnancy would hinder that, so you want to be safe.

Answer 5

i just went through this like a few montsh ago

me and my bfs mom talked about it and there was diafram

linkss-http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health...

http://www.pamf.org/teen/s*x/birthcontro...

http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/diaphr...

but where i went they didnt have it so now i use nuva ring

you can see it on commercials now

its with cartoon women in a pool singing monday tuesday la de da de da

but heres the link for it

http://www.nuvaring.com/Consumer/index.a...

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-...

http://hcp.nuvaring.com/hcp/login.asp

you just take it out ever 23 days

then put it after 5

its so easy you cant feel it and it works 99.9%

or go to this-

http://www.fda.gov/opacom/lowlit/brthcon...

i talked with my mom

i told her im being responsible about this

cuz im too younge to have a child

i want a future

and tell her what ever birth control you searched about give her the deats and hopefully she'll understand

she might be overwealmed but it'll be worth it and she'll see she raised a good smart daughter

:D

i rly hope i helped

good luck  

Answer 6

Be honest with her.  Tell her you've already had s*x and you want to be responsible and protect yourself so that you don't become a mother before you're ready.  If she doesn't allow it....try Planned Parenthood!

Answer 7

tell her you don't have your period normal...that might work  cuz I take it becuz my montly thing is not normal ...try it...But TINA is right

Answer 8

Learn that having s*x when you are a teenager is no expression of love

Instead realize that it is more loving to keep your teenage horniess in check to protect the other person.

Wait until marriage.

Answer 9

Go to Planned Parenthood. You won't have to get your mom's permission.

Answer 10

I also agree with Tina.. plus you don't know what people.. so keep it to your self  

Answer 11

you can just tell her you are considering it, and you don't necessarily have to say its because you're sexually active you can say you want to regulate your period.  

Also alot of parents aren't mad or upset about it more times then not they're glad you were honest and you're mature enough to come to them about it