Birth control help please, wedding in 3 months :)?

Question

We are getting married in 3 months, we're not thinking about children any time soon. we both dont like condoms and we know we're both healthy from any STDs. We're looking for the best way for birth control.

We dont want anything inserted surgically in her womb or by a syringe! So we think the pills r the best way for us.

Heard that pills must be taken at least a month before they start being effective, nevertheless, we really dont wana get pregnant accidentally, and we're not gonna blame a PILL!! hehe

maybe i dunno much about pills, but eventhough she will be on the pills, do think it is SAFER if i just dont ejaculate inside her during her ovulation period? or if she's on the pills, there is no ovulation anyways?

any suggestions other than pills that may suite us? thanx

Answer 1

You could get the shot, or the patch. Or you could use nothing and buy the morning after pills.

Answer 2

easiest is pills

theres the nuva ring, but that looks sketch too me

honestly i just say go with the pills

hollyy

Answer 3

just get on the pill most cases it works. If you still worry you could always buy VCF. Neither one of you will no its there and the are not that expensive at the drug store. I've been married for 7 yrs. and have been off the pill for two yrs. now and just use them. No kids yet.  

Answer 4

I would suggest she gets on the pill right away, so she can balance out and deal with hormone issues, regulate her cycle, and deal with any acne or weight issues, forbid they should arise. I would also say that for extra protection, you should also use a condom, no fun, I know, but it's safer that way, and use one that's lubricated with spermicidal lubricant. You could also refrain form having s*x during times when she is ovulating, which can help, but is not an accurate science of course, but pulling out while wearing a condom causes it to be more likely to tear, just finish your business and withdraw carefully. If you are not going to use condoms, it's still a good idea to avoid known fertile times and withdraw before ejaculation, even though pre-ejaculate can cause pregnancy. it's less likely than if you ejaculate fully.

Answer 5

well hun, yes condoms suck, but which is worse, using them for a month until the pill is in effect, or staying up all night with a screaming child, you decide.

Answer 6

as per i know pills r safe...... 100% effective

Answer 7

Yes pregnancy is not likely if you take the pill at the same time everyday. Once she's on the pill, you can ejaculate in  her all you want lol and also they say the pill takes 7 days to be effective. I use it already for 4 monthes and im happy but im also very precise with timing