Birthday Parties??

Question

i'm about to be 15 in about 4 months. My grandmother has told me that it doesn't matter if i have a party this year, but i MUST have one when i turn 16.

honestly i don't see the point in birthday parties and i don't think i want to have them anymore. I just want a few good friends to hang out with.

My grandmother however insists i have parties and i'm worried she will throw me suprise parties if i refuse to help her plan one.

And if i do decide to have parties then i don't want my grandmother to help me or be anywhere near me on my birthday.

(my family has a history of ruining my birthdays, last year i had a very small party and my aunt got wasted and ended up throwing up all night in the bathroom and falling down the stairs then my cousin who's 10 told all my friends that she kissed a boy i liked)

can someone plz help me keep my grandmother from forcing me to have a party?

and plz don't tell me to talk to her it won't work

Answer 1

Say "thank you", help her plan the party, be grateful for a grandmother who cares about you.

You truly think your family is embarrassing?  At least they show up!

Have grandma make some rules for attending the party

1)   NO alcohol, or drunks

That solves 90% of the problems

enjoy

Luck

Answer 2

Okay, i see where you are comming from and i understand. I know it's lame to have your grandma plan your birthday party and be with you. But, theres one thing you need to understand, she loves you. If shes willing to go through that labor of planning a party for you, she cares about you a whole lot and must love you a ton. Alot of people who dont have a granmother for whatever reason, probably wish they had one like yours, that cares and loves you. So remember that, and if you know that and you still dont think its best for you for her to plan your party, then heres what you say you say "grandma, i know you must love me alot scence your willing to plan all of these partys for me, and let me say i love you too, but i do not want a birthday party, (explain your reason), im sorry. i hope you would love me enough that you will understand." that should work. If she really loves you she would understand.

good luck!

life is a blessing live every moment to the fullest.

hope i helped

-Morgan