Birthday Party ....?

Question

My fifteenth birthday is in less than a month and I'm usually really big on having a HUGE party. Ever since I can remember I've had really big themed slumber parties with about 10 of my closest friends.

This year is different. I'm not sure if friends will get along like they usually do and I'm really confused on who to invite and who not to invite and I know that some people will be mad if they aren't invited. This party is supposed to be fun and I don't want it to end up a night of drama. Sometimes not having the party seems better than having it!

Should I just hold off on the party this year or should I take the risk?

Answer 1

well it all depends, who ever is fighting you should pull them aside and ask if you can invite that other person just for that night cuz its your party. if they both agree then ok, but they dont then no.  but like said its your party you invite who you want. but if you dont want drama, then a good idea is to maybe have two parties. for example, if you have ten friends five of them dont get along with the other five, then split it up one night the first five and another night the other.

Answer 2

I'd leave it and have a big party for your 16th

Answer 3

have the paty babe! you will seriously regret it if you dont. either only invite like 4 or 5 friends, or invite as many as you want and if they start splitting up or whatever, tell them to quit it or they will have to go home. if they keep doing it, tell them to go call their mom to pick them up. force them if you have to,  but be firm. if their parents cant come pick them up, tell them to go in your room (or guest room or whatever) and tell them to stay in there and sleep there for the rest of the time. i know it seems all time out ish but its woth it because the other girls will realize that ur serious, they will shape up. no the girl on the bed in your room will not be happy w/ you, but you do not want her ruining your partay. muchos luv and luck

Answer 4

Why don't you tell the ones who are fighting to just be polite and try and make up before the party. Tell them it's your birthday and you don't want to be having to stop people arguing the whole time.

Have the party if you feel people will be able to calm it for 1 night. If not, invite the ones you know all get on and enjoy yourself.

Happy birthday! Enjoy the party!