Bisexual Catholic...?

Question

if i converted to catholicism, would it be an issue that i'm bisexual?

i'm only planning to date and eventually marry a man, so i won't actually be practising my bisexuality. but i also don't want to go through any of these ridiculous "homosexuality reform programmes" or have to be judged for my sexuality. i'm proud of it, and i dont hide my true self from anyone.

if you're only going to answer to spread hate then please don't bother. thanks.

Answer 1

You are what you are.  You have nothing to apologize for.  Be with the person you chose.  If you end up marrying a man, you should of course not be with anyone else (man or woman).

Answer 2

i'm catholic too, i actually like this girl too my cousin told me i will never go to heaven,(supportive family huh) but i just don't give a s**t what they saying, jesus loves evry1 yea, like who r they to say who going to heaven....be proud of who u r, but if it hurting,then don't tell nobody and don't be affected by people judgment. be happy :)

Answer 3

I don't understand why someone who is not practicing their bisexuality would go around proclaiming to be one. Especially in a church that is essentially against it.

Anyway, if anyone asks, the new name for it is "heteroflexible". Say that, it may confuse them.

Answer 4

well, I would just keep your personal life just that,... personal, I have an aunt that is catholic and is g*y, she just keeps her personal life quiet, it really is no ones business, what you do behind closed doors, This is between you and god, no one else should judge your sexuality, Still be proud of who you are, i just wouldn't announce it to everyone, If you are asked, then yes tell the truth, dont lie about it,  I hope I helped some,  

Answer 5

this is sad, you are not heterosexual, you shouldn't feel the need to only be with men because of a religion...don't deny that part of you...

Answer 6

Nah.. I don't think it would be an issue at all.. I have this church mate who's totally a g*y. when I say totally I mean like he wears make-up, he dresses like a woman, and talks like a woman, and acts like one, too. The Church accepted him wholeheartedly then eventually he turned to a guy.

No, not by force, nobody in the Church even bothered that he's g*y. He told us that he felt the love he really needed when he was a child in the Church and eventually turned back to what he really is meant to be, a man.

Hope this helps.

Answer 7

Er. I wouldn't rule out falling in love with a woman along the way. Unexpected things happen.

If you meet and marry him before you meet a woman who you fall for, though, I see no reason why it'd be a problem. After you commit to marriage, it's no different than meeting a really nice guy and having to go "um, married" and scoot on your way.  

Answer 8

You are no different than a lot of people who decide to commit themselves to a Christian faith so long as it does not require them to change certain aspects of their lives.  Those aspects vary from s*x to drugs to money to etc.

I can tell you from experience 1 of 2 things happens to these people.

They never change but they leave the church.

They change and go on to be an integral part of the body of Christ.

The difference between the two types of people are their relationships with God.

He is the catalyst for change in your life or you never really get to know Him.

Answer 9

No, I was raised Catholic and even went to Catholic school and I can honestly say that nobody ever talked about homo/bi-sexualty.

The Catholic church is full of all types of man-made rules. I truly don't think the congregation or even the priest truly expect you to follow all of those rules.

Most Catholics are 'buffet' Catholics. They take what they want and leave what they don't. From my personal experience, this church is a great place to go if you are seeking a closer relationship with God and other of the same faith WITHOUT the criticism.

Answer 10

it won't be problem,then

there is no "homosexuality reform programmes" in the Catholic Church

Answer 11

God gave you your sexual orientation, so there is definitely no issue.The Catholic Church is not concerned with your sexuality. I hope you do convert.