Bisexual - Is It Still Cheating?

Question

My boyfriend is bisexual, and we've been going out for a while, but he knew this guy before we went out, and he's told me about him...he's even told me stories of stuff that they've done. But he still wants to do stuff with him...while going out with me. He's sort of pushing me on whether I would consider it cheating or not. I'm just not sure...it feels wrong to me, and I'm hurt that he's not satisfied with just me...what should I do?

Answer 1

Yeah, that's considered cheating. It doesn't really matter if it's a guy or a girl, it's still someone else. As for what to do about it, I don't know, sorry. =/

Answer 2

yeah that cheating. he can't have his cake and eat it too. bisexulas can choose to be faithful to a partner or not. he is choosing to do stuff with him while being with you. that's cheating. find someone else. you can do better than a cheater.

Answer 3

Yeah, since he is committed to you, he should NOT be committed to anyone else. You need to tell him, do you want me or him, and he better pick you, because if he does not, then you should totally dump him.

This is not a g*y vs straight issue. This is an issue of love a commitment. Be strong, don't let him take advantage of his situation and you.

Answer 4

well you can leave him alone.. and find another person.. if you want.

Answer 5

tell him you hate his guts and then dump him

if he doesn't grovel for you not leave you don't you didn't lose a thing

Answer 6

I have a straight friend who is equally attracted to blondes and redheads. That doesn't give him the right to get to have s*x with one on the side.

So yes. Cheating is cheating. Explain that it doesn't matter what gender it is, you're hurt that he's not satisfied with being exclusive with you.

Offer to use a strap-on on him if he's into that. Block any attack that he has "needs" that you "can't satisfy".

As a bisexual, I demand to be treated the same as everybody else, and that applies to the rules of relationship exclusivity as well.

Answer 7

If you are not comfortable with it, then yes, it would be cheating. I would have no problem with it if you were ok with him doing it. But if you are not absolutely, 100% certain that you are ok with him doing it, than no, he should not do it. It would be cheating.



What to do about it? Explain to him that it is not ok with you. Let him know that you would consider it cheating, and you would not like him to do it.

Answer 8

let him....but join in.

Answer 9

that's cheating

fersure

Answer 10

if he does it is considered cheating no matter wat orientation a person is being emotionally attached to or sleeping with someone else is cheating.....................unless your cool with it

Answer 11

Unless you're one hundred and thirty five percent okay with it, then it's cheating. I'd break up with him, because he'll only hurt you more if you don't

Answer 12

try the love triangle und do a sleepover at teh loaner home/;

Answer 13

this is why I would never date a bi guy (.......again.....)

Answer 14

Let him know how you feel. If you consider it cheating (which honestly it really is) than tell him that. Would he appreciate it if you went and slept with a woman?  

Answer 15

aww im sorry. At risk of sounding dirty...

TRY TO WORK A 3 WAY SISTER!