Bisexual or bi curious?

Question

Okay, this has been on my mind for a while. I asked a question like this before and since then I considered my self bi curious. But now things feel different.

I have a crush on a girl, and I wouldn't mind dating a girl. And I want to kiss and date a girl ((but my school is made up of mostly homo phobics so I would have to find a girl out of town)). The thing is, I never dated a girl or kissed one but I want to. I also wouldn't mind dating or kissing boys either.

So does this make me bi curious or does it make me bisexual because I want to date a girl and I have a small crush on a girl.

Oh yeah, and I'm 12 years old in case you're wondering my age. Some people say I'm to young to know my sexuality. I personally don't believe that. (:

Answer 1

You sound just curious and you are sort of young seeming that you are just 12, most people know for sure when they are about 13-14. But try not to focus on labels so much. But i would say you are curious.

Answer 2

I don't know.

I'd say if you genuinely know you're attracted to other girls, then you'd be bisexual.

If you're simply curious about the sexual side of things, I'd say bicurious.

Although personally, I don't like the term bicurious-it equates with the idea that being bisexual is a choice and it's only to do with who you have s*x with, i.e. your actions rather than your feelings.

Answer 3

wanting to date someone or having a crush on someone makes you human. wanting to kiss a guy or a girl makes you human.

whether people say you're too young to know your sexuality, i personally say you're much too young to start slapping labels on yourself.

get into the relationship that you're comfortable with and then let the labels fly by observers.

Answer 4

i'm like you except i'm positive about my sexuality. i would say your curious.

Answer 5

your to young for me to even answer that.

Answer 6

toughie, don't want to sound condescending but at the time you are in your life, you are going through many changes.

All i would say is keep an open mind about all your feelings, you do not need to put yourself into a 'box/category'

Enjoy live and its experiences....... :)