Bisexual people- do you ever feel that you can't be with someone exclusively because you always want to be ?

Question

with a both a man and a woman? I am bisexual myself so I'm not looking to be harsh or judgemental. I'm just curious. I know there are people who think that there is no such thing as bisexuality and insist that you must choose to be either straight or g*y. Do you feel like you need both? Are you able to stay in a committed relationship or do you always feel unsatisfied?

Answer 1

I have no problems being with one person exclusively. I don't always want to be with both a man and a woman, it's more that a person's s*x is not a boundary for a relationship with the person. My partner and I are both bisexual.

Answer 2

No, not at all. One partner is enough to keep me satisfied. I have been in a committed relationship for 5 years, in the process of making wedding plans (if the rest of life stops interfering). I do not feel the need to be with both at all. I am still attracted to both, of course, but I do not need to date both.

Answer 3

I don't always want to be with a man and a woman. Usually I want to be with women, but sometimes I want to be with men. And yeah, I am capable of being in committed relationships - I don't care what other (mostly straight) people might think. I got close to getting married (to a girl) but she got cold feet last minute.

Answer 4

I am bisexual. I don't think it is any harder for a bisexual to stay faithful than for a homosexual or a heterosexual. It's all the same thing. Those who say there is no such thing as bisexuality are closed minded biophobes.

Answer 5

i think, personally that if you find that special someone, it doesn't matter. at least that is how i feel...when i find that special someone, they will be all i need.

Answer 6

Found that special someone over 12 years ago, married for almost 9.  I am able to stay committed.  We're a little kinky in the bedroom but kinky with each other.  :P

Answer 7

Well I belive that you are attacted to one over the other but connections are different as well. I think it's a mixture of lots of things and for me I would like to stick to someone I can connect to and sometimes leads to attraction and I even feel confused myself but everyone is different and it is understandable if you want both and everything.  

Answer 8

I lean more towards women rather than man.

I chose either one or the other, but 99% of the time is women.