Black Men/White Women; Why do you look around when you are dating and in public, looking to see who is ?

Question

.... looking at you? Everytime I see an interracial couple they are staring at me hard as if I care that they are together. Just because I am black I am supposed to care about what a black man does. I feel that you want people to hate on you, you are looking for the attention. It is 2008, nobody cares!!! I think you like to be the victims but is is all in your head!! I am educated, attractive, and very outgoing and open minded. I have dated someone from every race/ethnic background.

Furthermore, why should I care about some guy that I don't know. Just because your black right? You could be a serial killer (the sniper was black), a dead beat dad, an idiot, and the list goes on. Why should I want you? Just being black isn't enough, sorry to burst your bubble. I mean really, look what happened with the O.J. Simpson scandal. A very successful black athlete with a beautiful blonde. I don't know about you other sistas out there but I like my head attached to my neck LOL!!!! Better her than me. Alll I am saying is, stop staring at me and others, stop trying to see who is looking at you 2 seconds longer than usually and them judging them saying that they are against interracial relationships, cause I am not one of them.

Note: I have never seen an attractive black man with a white woman, well O.J. was fine, but we already went over that.

Also, everybody knows that only fat black women and loser white men care about that ish...

Answer 1

cocaine is a powerful drug

Answer 2

you need get a life.

Answer 3

you are paranoid. Nobody is looking for you.

black men and white women always "staring at you hard" How did you notice them?

Answer 4

youve dated a mongolian?

cool.

Answer 5

I was with you all the way through the first paragraph.

I have noticed the same thing, when an interracial couple passes by, they will look at me like I'M going to say something or give them a dirty look. It used to make me uncomfortable, and I'd AVOID looking at them b/c I didnt want them to be uncomfortable...

Now, when I see an interracial couple, I SMILE at them. Its an honest smile, of acceptance. The only issue I've ever had with interracial dating is when one person is RUNNING from their own race - but how would I know that by seeing you in passing??? I saw a couple - black woman and a white guy - at the beach a few weeks ago. The girl looked maddd nervous and embarrased. When I smiled at them, you could see her whole mood change. I hope she enjoyed her date :-)

I have seen one couple where the guy (a black man in this instance) gave ME this smug look that read "haha, I'm with a white girl" lol. I was surprised, and just felt sorry for the woman, she's with an idiot. They wont last lol.

Answer 6

Ok maybe some interracial couples still go through discrimination and have gotten "used to" being the victims. YES, it is 2008, and we are all *supposed* to be civilized...unfortunately that isn't the case. People STILL discriminate. I really wouldn't give a flying f*ck if an interracial couple started staring at me....I'd just keep walking. Seriously, it's not worth getting offended about these things.

Answer 7

it's not because you are a black person, but because you are a black woman they stare at you.....to see if you are hating on them.......yeah, white women and black men think that all black women hate them

it is so sad......because in reality, most black women do not care at all

blame it on the black men

Answer 8

lol,well I don't think it's thattt bad! BUT

but i will say that the other day, this white girl and her black bf were walking in the mall. And she looked at me like 1.) she wanted a reaction and 2.) haha, i got him you don't

Now keep in mind I have a fine bf, and that's all that matters; She could his ugly self to go along with her fat self!!!! lmao!!!!!!

Answer 9

Being mixed myself I don't really care about any of this.Black women with white men claim to get mean looks and black men with white women claim to get stares.Me being a mulatto I've never cared.I think most interracial daters have imaginary problems.They think everyone looks at them, they think they're different, they have this chip on their shoulder, and they think they're so special.In reality most of them get on everyone's nerves.Everytime I see an interracial couple I look at everything but the couple.

And in reality white men don't get good black women.Have you seen Robert DeNiro's wife?Very unattractive.

Wow not to forget interracial marriages don't last long.I think the interracial couples just do it to be obstinate.They do it just to say they did.A lot of them do it because their parents are against it.That is the absolutely sickest reason to like someone.Just because you want to be obstinate.

Answer 10

i'm mixed race but I would neva go out with a black person........... what's the sayin..... once you go white you won't put up a fite

Answer 11

i thought this so many times before

they want attention!

no body cares because alot of people date colors and break up and end up sticking to their own race

they think its cool to be a interracial couple and brag about their mixed kids

but ALOT OF them break up because they find out its not cool and we are humans

they stick to their own race anyways

I agree with you :)

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the interracial couples dont last long

Answer 12

I have never done that because I really don't care who is looking at me and I've been I/R married for over 18 years.  I also could care less if someone is against my marriage.  I really just mind my own business in general.  Those that do look around like that are insecure and/or trying to start something.

Answer 13

if their always looking around is because they only date each other to be like : LOOK we are an interratial couple ...

i've dated black ppl but just because i liked them or found them interesting

Answer 14

Yo baby chill!!  You need to be layin off the stuff you be gettin paranoid, thinkin couples starin at you.

Why you trippin over such a minor thing?

My dealer is 2 hours late and it be a 3 day weekend, now that is somethin to be trippin on.

Answer 15

Don't let that bother you.

BTW, not all black women are fat.

Answer 16

I agree girl!

Alot of black men are uglyyyy and with white girls, but the couples break up. but they stare at me and make me look at them LMAO!

i just laugh because their relationship isn't going to stay together that long when they are both conceited of each other

the thing is before interracial couples(each) were dating

they didnt get attention so they date someone from a different color(which is rare) but I read alot about interracial couples and they don't last long, my mom and dad are interracial and broke up so fast and he lives with his own race now and my mom lives with her own race now.

I agree with every word you typed<3

Answer 17

I do so hate to point this out, but by the looks of things (your wordy post and the fact that you took the time out of your life to come tell us this), you really DO care.

Your last statement makes it apparent that you're very much against interracial relationships and they make you very uncomfortable.  Too bad.  It's really none of your business.

Gain some self-esteem and get on with your own life.

Answer 18

the couples are probably paranoid themselves. many people do care. the people who constantly insist that they don't care, are usually the ones who care the most.

Answer 19

i feel paranoid about looking at IR couples cos so many complain about it. i only look out of curiosity but now i feel i hv to purposely look away lol.

i agree with a lot of your points

Answer 20

paranoia and delusional thoughts?? either u or them.

Answer 21

So you're saying only "ugly" black men date white women? lol..you're the one with the problem..you're not only paranoid but considering that ignorant statement about never seeing an attractive black man with a white woman...well, it stinks of jealousy and insecurity. Fat black women only care?? Where do you come off with such crass statements about people you don't know?

You're very clearly bitter about the subject or you wouldn't be posting this c**p on here.