Black guys and White girls??

Question

i pretty much talk about race everyday of my life - im black so its not like its going away. anyway my friends and i were joking around doing the whole "what if this happens after we leave school" game. its a good way to waste time. so one of my best friends goes "what if you end up with a black guy?" it was a joke not really a serious question so i just laughed it off like "yeah uh huh" but then my really close friend/ on and off bf goes "please no black guy is gonna date her *** she acts too white. besides we all know what they really like - that white meat"

OMG that was the funniest thing id heard all day so i couldnt even respond - just cracked up laughing.

anyway what do you think about black guys with white girls? yeah its great people are open minded but do you ever think black guys are obsessed with them? actually not just white girls - what about every other race of women besides black? thoughts?

Answer 1

As a black man of advanced age, I can assure you that black men, by and large, are not fixated on white women.  The reason that you may see us dating non-black women, is because they agree to date us.  

Many black women will not date black men, or only  want those who look a certain way, fit a certain profile, have substantial assets, just as other women do.  In addition, although black women claim that there exists a shortage of black men, they surely act as if the opposite were true.  How picky they can be would amaze you.

So, if our own women will not date us, or expect us to be more than what we are, then we must look elsewhere for good companionship.  I have no issue with black women dating out of our race.  It is just that black women, including those who profess not to want us, do not seem to want us men to have the same option in relationships.

Answer 2

I agree with Nicholson32, but I have a "white female" perspective to add.

I have dated about every "race" there is and I usually do not date guys for their skin color, but rather their personality. My ex-husband is black, but he did not date me because I acted a certain way (yeah, I act white, and I have issues with people who act like they belong to another race, but I let people be who they are, who am I to judge).

Also I have heard that some black guys date white women as status symbols (not sure what that is all about, I am thinking maybe people think that about professional sports players), and furthermore about black women being to difficult (see Nicolson's answer (but I have no experience first hand with that either).

I hope you will find that special person, no matter what race that loves you for who you are.

Answer 3

people like whoever they like.....